Last night when I got home there was an update on MySpace from one of my friends, it was Tommy’s daughter asking for prayers because their family had lost a loved one. I didn’t really know what the correct thing was for me to do. In the first place, my selfish self got sick to my stomach wondering who was comforting Tommy and who would go to the services with him and be holding his hand and helping him through it all. I was disgusted and ashamed with myself for even thinking that, but I did think it. I had to take a nerve pill to get to sleep I let it bother me so bad. I posted a comment on his daughter’s page giving my condolences to the family. I think that is the most I should do. What do you guys think? I mean he and I aren’t talking or having any communication so I really didn’t feel like I should open myself up to more hurt by contacting him. I prayed for them and asked others to do the same to help them through this difficult time. That should be sufficient unless he contacts me and asks me to be there for him in which case, I will be.

Hope I made the right call on this one.

Lucy