Comments on: Am I learning any lessons???? http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/05/am-i-learning-any-lessons/ Love-Sessions Blog for Love and Relationships! Tue, 03 May 2011 03:29:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: GG http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/05/am-i-learning-any-lessons/comment-page-1/#comment-77 GG Thu, 21 May 2009 22:07:16 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=172#comment-77 Lucy, I was not throwing stones. I write according to things you've said about yourself and what the BIble says will always be true. I am sorry if you feel judged because that is not my intent. It's just that I've seen to many women who have kind hearts suffer needlessy because they allow some loser to take a hold of their heart and it's just sad. I don't see myself as perfect and without sin. However, my mistakes has allowed me to build a really good relationship with God. That doesn't mean I'm not tempted because I'm human. Temptation is a good thing because it helps us strengthen our spirit when we resist as Jesus resisted in the desert. When we choose to follow God's ways, it is a daily practice and sometimes we need other believers to help us along the way because we are all here for each other. My heart goes out to you and I will pray for God to heal you of the pain from your past with your father. You have to believe that God loves you and He wants the best for you. I leave you with Deuteronomy 33:12,1 Peter 2:9, and 2 Timothy 2:15. I will be praying for you that something wonderful will come of your pain. It will help you to help others because God wants the best for His people. Have a great and safe holiday weekend. Know that your Heavenly Father loves you unconditionally and that's what matters most. Kind regards, GG Lucy,
I was not throwing stones. I write according to things you’ve said about yourself and what the BIble says will always be true. I am sorry if you feel judged because that is not my intent. It’s just that I’ve seen to many women who have kind hearts suffer needlessy because they allow some loser to take a hold of their heart and it’s just sad. I don’t see myself as perfect and without sin. However, my mistakes has allowed me to build a really good relationship with God. That doesn’t mean I’m not tempted because I’m human. Temptation is a good thing because it helps us strengthen our spirit when we resist as Jesus resisted in the desert. When we choose to follow God’s ways, it is a daily practice and sometimes we need other believers to help us along the way because we are all here for each other. My heart goes out to you and I will pray for God to heal you of the pain from your past with your father. You have to believe that God loves you and He wants the best for you. I leave you with Deuteronomy 33:12,1 Peter 2:9, and 2 Timothy 2:15. I will be praying for you that something wonderful will come of your pain. It will help you to help others because God wants the best for His people. Have a great and safe holiday weekend. Know that your Heavenly Father loves you unconditionally and that’s what matters most.

Kind regards,
GG

]]> By: Lucy Loveless http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/05/am-i-learning-any-lessons/comment-page-1/#comment-76 Lucy Loveless Thu, 21 May 2009 01:04:09 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=172#comment-76 Hi GG, Not sure why you feel it is your place to issue tough love to me but... love has no age limits and sometimes it makes us giddy like teenagers and it is exciting and it hurts, just like any deep true love does. So, it takes time to see things clearly and gain composure again. I am working on it but it is no easy task. And unless you are without sin, don't throw stones at me for premarital sex. Sin is sin, that is no greater than any you may have committed yourself. None of us can be perfect, we are all sinners saved by grace and I try hard to live a good life and one that God would be proud of but yes, I have my weaknesses and needing the love and affirmation of a man is one of them left over from a childhood in which my father never would discipline me because he hated me so much he said he wouldn't stop until he killed me. So... be gentle with your words. We may grow up but there is always a child within. You never know what has happened in someone's life until you walk in their shoes. Thanks for reading my blogs. You might want to start one of your own if you don't already have one. You could say something that might be very helpful to someone. Sincerely, Lucy. Hi GG, Not sure why you feel it is your place to issue tough love to me but… love has no age limits and sometimes it makes us giddy like teenagers and it is exciting and it hurts, just like any deep true love does. So, it takes time to see things clearly and gain composure again. I am working on it but it is no easy task. And unless you are without sin, don’t throw stones at me for premarital sex. Sin is sin, that is no greater than any you may have committed yourself. None of us can be perfect, we are all sinners saved by grace and I try hard to live a good life and one that God would be proud of but yes, I have my weaknesses and needing the love and affirmation of a man is one of them left over from a childhood in which my father never would discipline me because he hated me so much he said he wouldn’t stop until he killed me. So… be gentle with your words. We may grow up but there is always a child within. You never know what has happened in someone’s life until you walk in their shoes.
Thanks for reading my blogs. You might want to start one of your own if you don’t already have one. You could say something that might be very helpful to someone.
Sincerely,

Lucy.

]]> By: GG http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/05/am-i-learning-any-lessons/comment-page-1/#comment-74 GG Tue, 12 May 2009 04:08:23 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=172#comment-74 Lucy, I think you need some tough love and I'm going to give it to you. First of all, you're too olf for this nonesense over a "man" who clearly has no respect for you. How can he respect you when you don't respect yourself or set the bar. We teach people how to treat us and you're letting Tommy know that it's ok for him to mistreat you because he can get you back any time he wants. You need to implement what Joel said in his books and most of all, implement what the Bible says. God's word is the truth and it will set you free. As far as Tommy getting a sex fix from you, that should not have been on the table any longer because premarital sex goes against the good that God wants from us. I'm sorry,but the negativity you feel toward yourself reminds me of what adolescence go through and guys always see through that. They usually take advantage. Going over to Tommy's home univited will definitely label you as a psycho. Most times we don't get closure from the guy who hurts us, therefore we have to get closure on our own. Whatever he would tell you won't change anything. This guy is just not that into you so move on with your life and get some help Lucy,
I think you need some tough love and I’m going to give it to you. First of all, you’re too olf for this nonesense over a “man” who clearly has no respect for you. How can he respect you when you don’t respect yourself or set the bar. We teach people how to treat us and you’re letting Tommy know that it’s ok for him to mistreat you because he can get you back any time he wants. You need to implement what Joel said in his books and most of all, implement what the Bible says. God’s word is the truth and it will set you free.
As far as Tommy getting a sex fix from you, that should not have been on the table any longer because premarital sex goes against the good that God wants from us. I’m sorry,but the negativity you feel toward yourself reminds me of what adolescence go through and guys always see through that. They usually take advantage. Going over to Tommy’s home univited will definitely label you as a psycho. Most times we don’t get closure from the guy who hurts us, therefore we have to get closure on our own. Whatever he would tell you won’t change anything. This guy is just not that into you so move on with your life and get some help

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