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Mommy and Daddy??

Posted on : 11-09-2009 | By : Sweetheart Sara | In : Relationships

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I’m skipping ahead a little since my last post but it seemed more necessary to get to the point. Cory and I will have been together 5 months tomorrow and we are already on our second pregnancy ’scare’. I’ve never been regular growing up but have been getting acupuncture treatments to help regulate myself and its been working great but now I’m 12 days late. Granted with the acupuncture its not always exactly 28 days but its usually pretty close. I’ve been getting symptoms of my period for over a week now yet I still haven’t gotten. I’ve taken three tests which were all negative, but it still hasn’t calmed our nerves. We are always very careful but things do happen (i.e. condom tears, slips off, etc). Neither one of us are really ready to be parents yet, I am more that he is. I’ve had years of experience taking care of other peoples children and he doesn’t know the first thing about kids. He is in the process of building a house and this is totally unplanned. We have discussed it and will make things work no matter what. Then we got on the subject of marriage..is he ready? No. Am I ready? Absolutely. Sometimes I worry though–we’ve been together 5 months and haven’t had a single fight–no argument, no disagreement, nothing. Is this a good sign? Or is a huge blow up inevitable?? I already know he is the one I want to marry, but its also a matter of how soon is too soon?? Nothing like getting my mind off marriage but going to a wedding with him this weekend…

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There is no time limit on how well you know someone. And I don’t think that there is a too soon date to get married… I think that If the feeling is mutual, then its the right time…

My best friend got married less then 7 months of meeting her current husband, they are very happy. They both have the same goals, to have a family. I know this couple that waited two years before getting married and both also had a common goal, it was success.

Overall it really depends if the mutual is the same. Who cares what other people think if it is to soon or not, what matters is the how the two people in the relationship feels about each other..

We were not placed on this others to please others. If marriage is how you feel, and he feels the same GO FOR IT!! BE HAPPY!!!