I came home this evening and while getting ready for a first date with a new fella I stopped to check my e-mail. It felt like someone punched me in the stomach and knocked the breath out of me!! There, on my screen was Tommy’s screen name and his “connections” Peggy and Starr. OMGosh. That hurt me so much. I thought about it alot while I was on my date and when I got back home from my date decided to delete any and all contacts associated with Tommy. That way, I don’t know who or what he is doing and hopefully, without any reminders, I won’t think of him as much and will not have to endure that terrible pain. I mailed his card you know and I’m guessing he got it today. I will be glad when this obesession with him passes! I hope it doesn’t take too much longer. Thanks for listening. I welcome your comments.

Lucy

As I said in my last post, I am putting myself out there again and trying the online dating thing. I have been talking with a gentleman in St. Louis all week who will be in town next week and we are to meet on Monday. I am very excited about this meeting. He has called me everyday this week and the conversation has been good. He seems to be a genuinely caring man, successful, intelligent and funny. Not the kind who is usually interested in me so I am really hoping for the best! I’ll keep you informed. Of course thoughts of him are entwined with thoughts of Tommy. I mailed the first of 2 birthday cards I have for him on Friday. Don’t know if he will receive it today or Monday. I still don’t expect to hear anything from him and that is okay and I am sure for the best at this time. Stronger everyday. Hope all of you are doing well also.

Love,

Lucy

Well, after being bucked off of the love horse, I am dating again. I must say, I am having a very good time and meeting some very nice men. We will see how it goes. No love connection yet and don’t know that there will be one. But at least, it sure helps to ease the pain of breaking up with Tommy. Haven’t heard anything from him, nor do I expect to. I plan on mailing two birthday cards to him next week. Don’t want to hear from him. I just mostly want him to know that I remember his birthday and wish him the best. I hope you all are experiencing happiness this week.

Love,

Lucy Love FULL

It is only 10:30 a.m. on this Saturday morning. I have been up for an hour and already the pain is piercing my heart. I think it was brought on when I looked at my calendar and saw his birthday marked on it and then I heard the song by Carrie Underwood, “I Told You So” and as much as I LOVE that song and her version of it, it goes straight to my broken heart and gets wedged in all the cracks and then it takes days for the cracks to start closing up. The good thing about it starting so early is, I know to be prepared for it so it can’t sneak up on me during the day and get me. I”m already got. I do so wish he would call me and profess his love and want me back. And I do so wish that I would STOP wishing that! Speaking of wishing, wish me luck today. I hope your day is full of worthwhile wishes and not wasted on fairy tale endings…..

Love,

Lucy

I didn’t think this day would come
how could i be so dumb
theres so much to do
how can we be through

how can you be gone
this feels so wrong

I’m lying,waiting
for u to come and save me
i’m crying and dying
cause i want u with me

I’m trying to be stong
like i was before
but u left me
and thats my story

I’m getting so weak
look what u’ve done to me
i used to be so bold
this’s whats left of me

I’m lying, waiting
for you to come and save me
im crying,and dying
cause i want u with me

why’d you do that to me
i felt so free
when i was with u
but was it really true

i thought it was love
but i was so wrong
i thought it would never end
but itdidnt last to long

i’m lying,waiting
for u to come and save me
im crying and dying
cause i want u with me

u threw it all away
all in one day
was i not good enough
is it really true

im lying and waiting
for u to come and save me
im crying and dying
cause i want u with me

u with me
with me

you left me when I was too small to understand you told me that I could make it withough you , do you really think i can?

you tell me that you love me and miss me , you tell me these things are they true? I love you daddy, I just want you to be true,

I want to be with you, do you want to be with me? If you really mean what you say why are you gone? why did you go away?

The pain grows inside with every thought, every tear so fresh and hot, that is what you get for trying to be someone your not. Friends don’t that mean forever?

Then why do I feel this great pain? why do I feel so ashamed, I miss the way we used to laugh together. Friends don’t that mean forever?

Why when you look at me it is not the same. for this is uncertainy am I to blame. well I’m sorry for all the things i might have done. Friends don’t that mean forever?

Maybe I wish you could feel all the pain, Why??? because maybe you’d know why I feel alone. Friends don’t that mean forever?

when your with a girl you act
like you don’t know me. If I would have known this was how it was gonna be, I wouldn’t have fallen in love with you from the start because what you’re doing to Where were you when I needed you most? I would have done anything to hold you close I would have given the world to be back in your arms but you left me so torn apart.

Love is almost like suicide. You give so much to that special someone that you sometimes end up killing yourself inside.

You mean so much to me. I just wish I could tell you now but I would never be able to find the words without breaking down.

Just another sad love song back in my brain like crazy. I guess I’m all torn up. Fast or slow, it just doesn’t let go or shape me and it’s all because of you.

and no matter how hard I cry, he isn’t going to pop up and show me it was just a joke

People say not to cry because it’s over but to smile because it happened but how can you do that when just thinking of the good times makes you wanna cry because you realize what you’re missing?

Just another sad love song back in my brain like crazy. I guess I’m all torn up. Fast or slow, it just doesn’t let go or shape me and it’s all because of you.

you can say you miss me, i think about you everyday.

You did it again. You broke my heart again. You promised you wouldn’t do that. Promised you’d always be here for me. Promised you’d never hurt me. And I trusted you. Again. I was really stupid wasn’t I?

Without you, I’m nothing. Without you I’m suffering. Without you, I’m not whole. Without you, I have no soul.

your my heart and i can’t live without my heart.

If love doesn’t shatter you then you do not know love.

But that’s not why I’m here, I came down here to tell you it rains in heaven all day long, I wanna find you so bad and let you know I’m miserable up here without you, miserable up here without you.
I’d trade in forever to just hear you say the sound of my name

I’m in a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this I didn’t care that you left and abandoned me, what hurts more is I would still die for you.
Without you I’m not okay.. without you I’ve lost my way… my hearts stuck in second place…. without you

and tonight, my angel, I will sleep with a gun in my mouth. Good night. Sleep tight, my love

Don’t get your pleasure from my pain.

I don’t know, for a while, I had this tiny smidge of hope that one day, we’d be together again. But, last night, when we talked… I knew. I just knew you were in love with her. The kind of love that stays forever…now all I’m left with is a broken heart and shattered hopes and dreams

A thousand words couldn’t bring you back I know because I’ve tried. Neither could a thousand tears, I know because I’ve cried. You left behind a broken heart and happy memories too. But I never wanted memories, I only wanted you

When you love somebody, they become a part of you. That’s why it hurts so much to let them go. When you love someone that doesn’t love you back it’s hard to find a way to keep yourself on track. It leaves your heart broken and hurts so much but that’s why it’s called a crush.

I’m gonna smile like nothing is wrong talk like everything is perfect, act like it’s just a dream, and pretend he’s not hurting me

In every girl’s life there’s one guy who caused her pain yet she still loves him.

So you want a heart? You don’t know how lucky you are to not have one. Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable

don’t wanna fall for him again,’ dont think I can take the pain Don’t wanna have these feelings’ ‘if he doesnt feel the same dont want my heart to jump when I havent talked to him for a while don’t wana see him grin If Im not the one whos makin him smile dont wuna try to explain if he’lL never understand I dont want tears in my eyes everytime I see his face Dont want my heart to be empty If he is thee only one who can fill ‘the space I dont want to have to smile at him when I really wanna cry don’t want him to wave hello If he really means goodbye don’t wana tell him or let my feelings show’ dont wanna get played As a result of his little game but all he has to do to get me backk Is simply.. justt say my name
he used to say i love you it seemed like he really did care but now it..s completely different now he..s never there all of the little things he said mean’t the whole world to me suddenly we started to drift apart now we talk less n less i still wonder what i did wrong i can..t bere to see his face anymore knowing he doesn..t realize i..m there i don..t think he ever knew how much i truly cared i guess the sayins true .Hearts Are Broken Every Day.

Do you wanna see me beggin baby Cant you give me just one more day Cant you see my hearts been draggin lately Ive been lookin for the words to say

He looked me deeply in the eyes he lied and said “i won’t make u cry” and when i thought it was 2 good 2 be true, he blew me off and found someone new

.Someday.
.you..ll.
·realize·
.how.
.much.
·you·
.meant.
.to.
·me·
BR> you look in my eyes and ..im screamin inside that im sorry .·* it never got me anywhere *·.

i can forget the tears and hurt u put me thr0ugh but i can..t forget the laughs and special tymes i shared with u no matter how much time g0es by u will always be a part of my heart * always by my side because i couldn..t stop luvin u . . . even if i tried

I’m tired of trying to please people, it always seems the right thing to do but the time isn’t right” and then everything goes all wrong. I just wish there was a way to make things so back the way they were when you told me you cared. All the times we were alone and we talked and i told you how i felt you took it all in, was it just to get into my pants or do you really care?

When I took you home that was the first time in almost a year you actually said “i love you”…you always told me that those were some strong words… so i am sitting here making this poem about our relationship to explain how much i care for you. If I didn’t care or love you, i wouldn’t have bothered trying to get you to talk to me.

They say you only fall in love once but i have come to find it untrue because the last time we had problems i wanted to work things out. I am very happy to know that the sense of likeness you have has increased strongly. If it were up to me I would make it to where everything i said to you pleased you and made you see how much i do care for you and not just saying it.

I am going to remember the days we spent together and the nights we shared but there’s only one night that will stick and that is December 28. You should know what went down. I just don’t want to lose you. I might repeat myself but that is how i feel when we are together it seems i have everything in the world. but when we are apart it feels like a piece of my heart, my joy, my life, my love, has slowly slipped away, i don’t want to be with you for the sex because i want more than sex. i want to be the one you wake up to, the one that cooks you breakfast, the one that cleans the house, and most of all takes care of you when you get home from work and need a massage or just want to be held or vice-versa. I tend to keep how i feel to myself and that is where i screw myself over.

If it weren’t meant for me to feel this way i wouldn’t be here writing this or trying to see you. I hope you honestly feel the same way and mean everything you say just remember i love you and care

I can’t say I never loved you
Forget the past you said forever.

I was wrong to assume I knew you
But secrets were kept from me everyday
Hidden by you and I’m calling you out

And this bitter taste in my mouth
Left dry and irritated from a last kiss goodbye
To prove my point of this deception

I can’t say I never loved you
Forget the past you said forever
Bite my lip and taste my anger
Can you feel it growing as you linger
These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through
Turn your back to leave in silence
I’ll be stronger in your absence

I don’t need an excuse it’s too late
What good would it do from you anyways
I can take this but I’m letting you go

And these shallow words from my mouth
Left soft and barely spoken but don’t get me wrong
This is nothing short of hatred

I can’t say I never loved you
Forget the past you said forever
Bite my lip and taste my anger
Can you feel it growing as you linger
These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through
Turn your back to leave in silence
I’ll be stronger in your absence

These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through

I can’t say I never love you
Forget the past you said forever
Bite my lip and taste my anger
Can you feel it growing as you linger

These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through