Comments for Relationship and Love Blog http://www.love-sessions.com/blog Love-Sessions Blog for Love and Relationships! Tue, 03 May 2011 03:29:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Who Will You Choose? by Ken http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2011/04/who-will-you-choose/comment-page-1/#comment-151 Ken Tue, 03 May 2011 03:29:33 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=282#comment-151 Follow your heart! But it's different and hard to choose. Nice article. Thanks Follow your heart! But it’s different and hard to choose. Nice article. Thanks

]]> Comment on Who Will You Choose? by Love Virtue http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2011/04/who-will-you-choose/comment-page-1/#comment-149 Love Virtue Wed, 27 Apr 2011 16:53:51 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=282#comment-149 I'm a guy. I know that it's a hard situation and I felt the same two years ago. I loved a girl (my best friend) but then her best friend loved me too. That was a triangle love and it was ruined our friendship. But then after a looong time, we managed to recover our friendship. If I were you, I'll choose a guy whom I love and love me in return because love is a two way street. You won't find happiness if you're dating someone you don't love. I’m a guy. I know that it’s a hard situation and I felt the same two years ago. I loved a girl (my best friend) but then her best friend loved me too. That was a triangle love and it was ruined our friendship. But then after a looong time, we managed to recover our friendship.
If I were you, I’ll choose a guy whom I love and love me in return because love is a two way street. You won’t find happiness if you’re dating someone you don’t love.

]]> Comment on A new day…a new question… by Hakeem http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/12/a-new-day-a-new-question/comment-page-1/#comment-142 Hakeem Thu, 24 Dec 2009 01:03:34 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=261#comment-142 i love it, It is so cute, And i am learning al the time about love too i love it, It is so cute, And i am learning al the time about love too

]]> Comment on Mommy and Daddy?? by Ci Ci http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/09/mommy-and-daddy/comment-page-1/#comment-126 Ci Ci Sun, 13 Sep 2009 08:07:38 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=255#comment-126 There is no time limit on how well you know someone. And I don't think that there is a too soon date to get married... I think that If the feeling is mutual, then its the right time... My best friend got married less then 7 months of meeting her current husband, they are very happy. They both have the same goals, to have a family. I know this couple that waited two years before getting married and both also had a common goal, it was success. Overall it really depends if the mutual is the same. Who cares what other people think if it is to soon or not, what matters is the how the two people in the relationship feels about each other.. We were not placed on this others to please others. If marriage is how you feel, and he feels the same GO FOR IT!! BE HAPPY!!! There is no time limit on how well you know someone. And I don’t think that there is a too soon date to get married… I think that If the feeling is mutual, then its the right time…

My best friend got married less then 7 months of meeting her current husband, they are very happy. They both have the same goals, to have a family. I know this couple that waited two years before getting married and both also had a common goal, it was success.

Overall it really depends if the mutual is the same. Who cares what other people think if it is to soon or not, what matters is the how the two people in the relationship feels about each other..

We were not placed on this others to please others. If marriage is how you feel, and he feels the same GO FOR IT!! BE HAPPY!!!

]]> Comment on News from the Ex by ChibbiChic http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/08/news-from-the-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-119 ChibbiChic Fri, 28 Aug 2009 23:48:49 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=237#comment-119 Wow, that's some really great insight. Thanks! Wow, that’s some really great insight. Thanks!

]]> Comment on News from the Ex by Alex and Joey http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/08/news-from-the-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-118 Alex and Joey Thu, 27 Aug 2009 22:22:03 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=237#comment-118 Your ex loves getting a reaction out of you to still feel like he means something to you and your life now and isn't just a man in the past who should pay 80% of these bills without complaint. He sounds like a complete douchebag. He knows how to push your buttons and upset you from the time he is with you. He hasn't become a stranger. He's merely showing his nasty and manipulative side now because it makes him feel more powerful. Your ex loves getting a reaction out of you to still feel like he means something to you and your life now and isn’t just a man in the past who should pay 80% of these bills without complaint. He sounds like a complete douchebag. He knows how to push your buttons and upset you from the time he is with you. He hasn’t become a stranger. He’s merely showing his nasty and manipulative side now because it makes him feel more powerful.

]]> Comment on Rejected right over the edge… by Lucy Loveless http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/07/rejected-right-over-the-edge/comment-page-1/#comment-105 Lucy Loveless Fri, 24 Jul 2009 03:46:15 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=213#comment-105 Hi Queen Lindsay, Every word you said is EXACTLY the road I am on. I am excited to start my therapy with the psychiatrist so I can find out what it is that is deep inside of me that needs to be corrected in order for me to have a good relationship or be happy with or without a man in my life. Thank you so much for replying to my post. It gives me hope. I just cannot believe you said exactly what I am going through. The neediness, the lack of confidence.... Right on the money. And I know sometimes they were the wrong man and sometimes I was the wrong woman. I will post my progress. Thank you again!!! Lucy Hi Queen Lindsay, Every word you said is EXACTLY the road I am on. I am excited to start my therapy with the psychiatrist so I can find out what it is that is deep inside of me that needs to be corrected in order for me to have a good relationship or be happy with or without a man in my life. Thank you so much for replying to my post. It gives me hope. I just cannot believe you said exactly what I am going through. The neediness, the lack of confidence…. Right on the money. And I know sometimes they were the wrong man and sometimes I was the wrong woman. I will post my progress. Thank you again!!!
Lucy

]]> Comment on Rejected right over the edge… by Queen Lindsay http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/07/rejected-right-over-the-edge/comment-page-1/#comment-104 Queen Lindsay Thu, 23 Jul 2009 13:43:37 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=213#comment-104 Aw, I'm sorry this happened. I hope you don' t mind me kind of giving you my two cents. I have been through the same thing in my life. After being rejected so many times, you start to wonder what is wrong with you. First of all, from my own experience- I used to blame it on the men and there are times where we just pick the wrong ones over and again (like I did). Second of all, I finally had to take a look at myself. Men can smell neediness from a mile away. I'm not saying you were needy, I was. I was insecure, lacked confidence, self love. I was wanting a man to fill this tremendous void I accumalated through the years. I thought that if I found the right man to love me that every thing would be okay, that I would be happy. I finally came to the conclusion that no one is going to fill my void, no one is going to make me happy but me. Look, this void was so big even God couldn't fill it, I tried that route. I realized that I needed to take a break from dating and work on myself. I needed to learn how to love myself before any one else could love me the way I wanted to be loved. I needed security, self-confidence, self-esteem, and hope. It's really about digging deep and discovering your own soul, discovering what the void is, why it's there and realizing that we are the only ones that can fill it, no one else. I realized that I was NEVER going to be in a good, healthy relationship until I fixed "me". It was going to be the same thing over and again until I worked on the common denominator, me. Do not feel ashamed of having a break down, it happens to the best of us. Sometimes we can only take so much and rejection makes us pick apart and beat up on ourselves. It's a dark feeling to not feel wanted. The most important love you can ever recieve is from yourself, self-love. Take time off to focus on yourself, your needs, you wants, your life, just you. Aw, I’m sorry this happened. I hope you don’ t mind me kind of giving you my two cents. I have been through the same thing in my life. After being rejected so many times, you start to wonder what is wrong with you. First of all, from my own experience- I used to blame it on the men and there are times where we just pick the wrong ones over and again (like I did). Second of all, I finally had to take a look at myself. Men can smell neediness from a mile away. I’m not saying you were needy, I was. I was insecure, lacked confidence, self love. I was wanting a man to fill this tremendous void I accumalated through the years. I thought that if I found the right man to love me that every thing would be okay, that I would be happy. I finally came to the conclusion that no one is going to fill my void, no one is going to make me happy but me. Look, this void was so big even God couldn’t fill it, I tried that route. I realized that I needed to take a break from dating and work on myself. I needed to learn how to love myself before any one else could love me the way I wanted to be loved. I needed security, self-confidence, self-esteem, and hope. It’s really about digging deep and discovering your own soul, discovering what the void is, why it’s there and realizing that we are the only ones that can fill it, no one else. I realized that I was NEVER going to be in a good, healthy relationship until I fixed “me”. It was going to be the same thing over and again until I worked on the common denominator, me. Do not feel ashamed of having a break down, it happens to the best of us. Sometimes we can only take so much and rejection makes us pick apart and beat up on ourselves. It’s a dark feeling to not feel wanted. The most important love you can ever recieve is from yourself, self-love. Take time off to focus on yourself, your needs, you wants, your life, just you.

]]> Comment on Where is my 30 day chip? by Selma http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/06/where-is-my-30-day-chip/comment-page-1/#comment-101 Selma Sun, 05 Jul 2009 18:43:00 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=209#comment-101 Hi Lucy, hope you are doing good. Likely now far beyond the 30 day point or ...? Best of luck. Selma Hi Lucy, hope you are doing good. Likely now far beyond the 30 day point or …?
Best of luck.
Selma

]]> Comment on Where is my 30 day chip? by Lucy Loveless http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/2009/06/where-is-my-30-day-chip/comment-page-1/#comment-100 Lucy Loveless Thu, 25 Jun 2009 03:27:31 +0000 http://www.love-sessions.com/blog/?p=209#comment-100 Thank you uH. I read some of your entry about the A-Team. Whew! alot of information. Very interesting, your take on women, dating and the way they are categorized. I like that because it allows you to appreciate each woman completely seperately and it's easier to sort out the keepers from the throw backs. LOL Thank you uH. I read some of your entry about the A-Team. Whew! alot of information. Very interesting, your take on women, dating and the way they are categorized. I like that because it allows you to appreciate each woman completely seperately and it’s easier to sort out the keepers from the throw backs. LOL

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