when your with a girl you act
like you don’t know me. If I would have known this was how it was gonna be, I wouldn’t have fallen in love with you from the start because what you’re doing to Where were you when I needed you most? I would have done anything to hold you close I would have given the world to be back in your arms but you left me so torn apart.

Love is almost like suicide. You give so much to that special someone that you sometimes end up killing yourself inside.

You mean so much to me. I just wish I could tell you now but I would never be able to find the words without breaking down.

Just another sad love song back in my brain like crazy. I guess I’m all torn up. Fast or slow, it just doesn’t let go or shape me and it’s all because of you.

and no matter how hard I cry, he isn’t going to pop up and show me it was just a joke

People say not to cry because it’s over but to smile because it happened but how can you do that when just thinking of the good times makes you wanna cry because you realize what you’re missing?

Just another sad love song back in my brain like crazy. I guess I’m all torn up. Fast or slow, it just doesn’t let go or shape me and it’s all because of you.

you can say you miss me, i think about you everyday.

You did it again. You broke my heart again. You promised you wouldn’t do that. Promised you’d always be here for me. Promised you’d never hurt me. And I trusted you. Again. I was really stupid wasn’t I?

Without you, I’m nothing. Without you I’m suffering. Without you, I’m not whole. Without you, I have no soul.

your my heart and i can’t live without my heart.

If love doesn’t shatter you then you do not know love.

But that’s not why I’m here, I came down here to tell you it rains in heaven all day long, I wanna find you so bad and let you know I’m miserable up here without you, miserable up here without you.
I’d trade in forever to just hear you say the sound of my name

I’m in a car underwater with time to kill, thinking back I forgot to tell you this I didn’t care that you left and abandoned me, what hurts more is I would still die for you.
Without you I’m not okay.. without you I’ve lost my way… my hearts stuck in second place…. without you

and tonight, my angel, I will sleep with a gun in my mouth. Good night. Sleep tight, my love

Don’t get your pleasure from my pain.

I don’t know, for a while, I had this tiny smidge of hope that one day, we’d be together again. But, last night, when we talked… I knew. I just knew you were in love with her. The kind of love that stays forever…now all I’m left with is a broken heart and shattered hopes and dreams

A thousand words couldn’t bring you back I know because I’ve tried. Neither could a thousand tears, I know because I’ve cried. You left behind a broken heart and happy memories too. But I never wanted memories, I only wanted you

When you love somebody, they become a part of you. That’s why it hurts so much to let them go. When you love someone that doesn’t love you back it’s hard to find a way to keep yourself on track. It leaves your heart broken and hurts so much but that’s why it’s called a crush.

I’m gonna smile like nothing is wrong talk like everything is perfect, act like it’s just a dream, and pretend he’s not hurting me

In every girl’s life there’s one guy who caused her pain yet she still loves him.

So you want a heart? You don’t know how lucky you are to not have one. Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable

don’t wanna fall for him again,’ dont think I can take the pain Don’t wanna have these feelings’ ‘if he doesnt feel the same dont want my heart to jump when I havent talked to him for a while don’t wana see him grin If Im not the one whos makin him smile dont wuna try to explain if he’lL never understand I dont want tears in my eyes everytime I see his face Dont want my heart to be empty If he is thee only one who can fill ‘the space I dont want to have to smile at him when I really wanna cry don’t want him to wave hello If he really means goodbye don’t wana tell him or let my feelings show’ dont wanna get played As a result of his little game but all he has to do to get me backk Is simply.. justt say my name
he used to say i love you it seemed like he really did care but now it..s completely different now he..s never there all of the little things he said mean’t the whole world to me suddenly we started to drift apart now we talk less n less i still wonder what i did wrong i can..t bere to see his face anymore knowing he doesn..t realize i..m there i don..t think he ever knew how much i truly cared i guess the sayins true .Hearts Are Broken Every Day.

Do you wanna see me beggin baby Cant you give me just one more day Cant you see my hearts been draggin lately Ive been lookin for the words to say

He looked me deeply in the eyes he lied and said “i won’t make u cry” and when i thought it was 2 good 2 be true, he blew me off and found someone new

.Someday.
.you..ll.
·realize·
.how.
.much.
·you·
.meant.
.to.
·me·
BR> you look in my eyes and ..im screamin inside that im sorry .·* it never got me anywhere *·.

i can forget the tears and hurt u put me thr0ugh but i can..t forget the laughs and special tymes i shared with u no matter how much time g0es by u will always be a part of my heart * always by my side because i couldn..t stop luvin u . . . even if i tried

I’m tired of trying to please people, it always seems the right thing to do but the time isn’t right” and then everything goes all wrong. I just wish there was a way to make things so back the way they were when you told me you cared. All the times we were alone and we talked and i told you how i felt you took it all in, was it just to get into my pants or do you really care?

When I took you home that was the first time in almost a year you actually said “i love you”…you always told me that those were some strong words… so i am sitting here making this poem about our relationship to explain how much i care for you. If I didn’t care or love you, i wouldn’t have bothered trying to get you to talk to me.

They say you only fall in love once but i have come to find it untrue because the last time we had problems i wanted to work things out. I am very happy to know that the sense of likeness you have has increased strongly. If it were up to me I would make it to where everything i said to you pleased you and made you see how much i do care for you and not just saying it.

I am going to remember the days we spent together and the nights we shared but there’s only one night that will stick and that is December 28. You should know what went down. I just don’t want to lose you. I might repeat myself but that is how i feel when we are together it seems i have everything in the world. but when we are apart it feels like a piece of my heart, my joy, my life, my love, has slowly slipped away, i don’t want to be with you for the sex because i want more than sex. i want to be the one you wake up to, the one that cooks you breakfast, the one that cleans the house, and most of all takes care of you when you get home from work and need a massage or just want to be held or vice-versa. I tend to keep how i feel to myself and that is where i screw myself over.

If it weren’t meant for me to feel this way i wouldn’t be here writing this or trying to see you. I hope you honestly feel the same way and mean everything you say just remember i love you and care

I can’t say I never loved you
Forget the past you said forever.

I was wrong to assume I knew you
But secrets were kept from me everyday
Hidden by you and I’m calling you out

And this bitter taste in my mouth
Left dry and irritated from a last kiss goodbye
To prove my point of this deception

I can’t say I never loved you
Forget the past you said forever
Bite my lip and taste my anger
Can you feel it growing as you linger
These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through
Turn your back to leave in silence
I’ll be stronger in your absence

I don’t need an excuse it’s too late
What good would it do from you anyways
I can take this but I’m letting you go

And these shallow words from my mouth
Left soft and barely spoken but don’t get me wrong
This is nothing short of hatred

I can’t say I never loved you
Forget the past you said forever
Bite my lip and taste my anger
Can you feel it growing as you linger
These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through
Turn your back to leave in silence
I’ll be stronger in your absence

These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through

I can’t say I never love you
Forget the past you said forever
Bite my lip and taste my anger
Can you feel it growing as you linger

These words tell of how I trusted
And of all the pain that I have been through

Kurt,
I love you so much
I love you with all of my heart
I will never get over the feeling that I have so strongly for you
I just keep thinking about how if I would ever lose you how I would spend the rest of my life trying to get you back
And thinking about how my life will never be complete with out you in it
Kurt you are my world
You are my strength
You are the reason that I get up ever morning
You are the reason that I want to live
You are the greatest thing that has ever happened to me
I just keep thinking of the mistakes that I have made in our relationship
And how I would go back to take them all away
I know that we will have our little fights and arguments
Every argument that we have kills me inside
But all that I can think of is’
In the end will we remain together?
And I know that you will be there for me when I need you the most
You sit there and say that I do not love you
But you got it all wrong
I love you more and more each day
I love you more and more with every breath that I take and with every smile that I make
Everyday I think of how I want to spend the rest of my life with you
I sit here everyday just waiting to hear your voice and waiting to hear your laugh
I know that you have been hurt before
But there is nothing that I can do about that
Just because of that I just want you to know that I don’t love you any less
Babe I just want you to know that I love you and will forever more
Nothing that anyone can say will ever make that change

BRENTON AND KURT MEAN THE WORLD TO ME IF YOU EVER HURT ONE OF THEM YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH ME…I LOVE MY SON AND MY BOYFRIEND….

When you cut with a knife
you slowly begin to ruin your life.
you have nothing to gain
so you put yourself through pain?
of all the things we did
the best was having a kid.
I knew of all those things, you lied.
so you run away and hide,
run away from your own son,
hold on I am not done.

You think this is all a game
but in reality it is really lame.
when he gets older and i explain,
explain to him why you put him through pain
he’s gonna know that you didn’t care.
he’s young, he’s not aware,
why can’t you see he means everything to me.
he’s the only guy i need
who won’t make my heart bleed.
can’t you see i love my son.

Today was a “half and half” day. I had moments of joy and moments of sadness. I was finally able to look at a picture of Tommy without it ripping my heart out ,so that was good. Yesterday I bought two birthday cards to send to him because they both said what I wanted to say. I don’t expect or want to hear from him when he gets them unless he is ready to settle down and really try to have a true relationship with me. If he wanted to, I would definitely try. I don’t think I will hear anything though and that is fine. I am prepared for that and will be fine. I feel myself getting stronger every day but I still am unable to get back on my regular sleep routine at night. I stay up very late and then sleep only a few hours at a time. I don’t know what is up with that. Today, for some reason, I just felt like he and I will some day end up together and it made me feel so good. That has to be delirium kicking in from the lack of sleep. I know no other exlpanation for such crazy thoughts! The sad moment was as I looked at his picture, but it was a sadness that I can deal with and one I know will go away with time.

Like my daughter said, “Don’t make someone a priority when you are an “option” to them”. And, unfortunately I guess that is all I was for Tommy. Just one more option…..

Hey, keep your options open!

Love to you all

Lucy

Yesterday, I went to church but before church I listened to Charles Stanley’s service on t.v., then, last night before I went to bed, I listened to the Reverend Joel Olsteen and between all of them, I received renewed hope and strength. Today has felt so good. I am so glad to have a day without that deep heart piercing pain. And I am so thankful for it. Joel said no matter what you have been praying for and no matter how long you have been praying for it, don’t stop because “you are closer than you think”. I believe that. And that gives me great hope. And our substitute pastor at church continued a 4 part series on Lust and the sanctity of marriage and how important sex is to a married couple when it is kept in the context as the Bible intended it to be. I don’t know what any of you believe or who or what you worship, but my God that I serve is so understanding he wrote in the Bible about the physical needs of man and woman and that they need to meet these needs as a married couple. What a gracious and giving God.

If any of you are feeling hopeless, please know, there is hope and you are “closer than you think” so don’t give up your prayers.

Love,

Lucy (Love-full) at least for today!!!

I cannot believe what a day I have had. The weather outside has been absolutely beautiful. Mid-70′s where I live and yet, I have spent most of this day, in my bedroom sleeping. It is just so painful sometimes when I am awake. I feel all of the sadness and deep depression that is paralyzing me when I am awake. Sleep is my escape. I have far too much to be happy about and far too much work on myself I need to be doing to allow one man’s rejection to take all of that away from me. Where is the strengtth I have always had? Hopefully when I go to church tomorrow I will get a refill of that strength. It helped me alot this week and got me through four days in alot less pain so I feel sure I will get stronger as the days go by. One day, he won’t even be a memory! Hopefully it won’t be because I have lost all of my recollections (you may laugh now), but it will be because better things have filled up my mind!

Thanks to all who read and allow me to share my pain, as embarrassing as it is. I do so appreciate your company and your comments and hope you all are doing wonderfully well.

Love,

Lucy Loveless (for now)

I do pretty good during the course of the day. But when 5 o’clock comes and I get in my car, instant depression sets in accompanied by overwhelming sadness. Why is this hitting me so hard? I don’t understand it at all. When I engage my brain and list the “why it would never work” and compare it to the “why it would work” list, there is NO comparison. There’s no reason why I should expect or want it to work with Tommy. So where is this hold on my heart coming from??? Maybe it is just the “rejection”. No matter where it comes from, I simply cannot accept that people do not want my love. Crazy. Everyday when 6:00 comes and goes, I know that another day has passed that I will not hear from him because with his schedule he is in bed by then. It will be so nice when you can log on and read a blog from me that is happy and hopeful. Don’t give up on that day, I sure won’t. Until then, I thank you for your interest and appreciate your comments.

Lucy