You know the drill. You’ve broken up with your ex maybe you’re even divorced for a few years already. But you still have nobody in your life. Then something big happens to you and since you don’t have a new love interest, the first person you think of to share with is your ex. So you call/email/text him or her.

Is it because you want to get them back? I don’t think so. You know as well as I do that you left them for a good reason. But still you contact the ex. The memories of what it felt like to have a true love are addicting.

But like any addiction, you must change your behavior and surround yourself with new friends if you want to truly recover.

Creating good feng shui to support your recovery and help attract a new love opportunity means removing all memorabilia attached to former lovers from your environment. Get rid of all old photos, gifts, clothing, etc from your ex. Find out more at my Feng Shui By Fishgirl blog.