so hot

I really like this guy at my school but he is already going out with a girl in my class i am waiting for him to break up with her so I  can ask him

there is a few other boys I like to but i cant get the nerve to see if they like me

what do I  do

(Screen) Name: unknown

*what am i supposed to do..

This isn’t so much a confession but a way to get something out. My love isn’t a secret but it hurts me and it also really scares me. My whole life I’ve been quick to loving people, but it seems that as soon as they get interested I move on to someone else. I’ve really just been looking for something I can control, something where my thoughts count and my decisions matter. I’m with this girl right now and she means everything to me, but I’m scared. I’ve tried running away from her, tried pushing her away but she just doesn’t give up and it makes me happy because I don’t want her to. That’s the thing with me, I get scared of losing people so I push them away. I haven’t seen a functional relationship in my life, so really.. what are the chances of me having one? Secondly, I’m a girl as well and just until recently I was still in the closet, still hiding from my own truth. In my family, in my community, same sex relationships have always looked down upon. So I always figured there must be something wrong with them. I’ve been in many relationships with guys and most of them were idiots, some were okay and very few were amazing, but none of them even start to compare to the relationship I have now. Not one. I don’t want to lose her, but I have no idea how I can get over my fear of commitment, my fear of loss or just my general fear of people and relationships. If anyone actually reads these things, please don’t judge me, but if you do have any advice whatsoever or maybe even a story of your own that you think would help me, that would be great. I guess that’s it for now though, I’m scared.

(Screen) Name: jgmilu06

WHATS THEIR TO DO?

I BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 3 YEARS NOW. EVERYTHING WAS GOING GREAT, UNTIL I STARTED TO FEEL VERY DIFFRENTLY. I FEEL AS OF IM NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM NEMORE BUT JUST USE TO HIM. IT HURTS ME TO LET HI M GO EVEN IF I NO ITS NOT THE SAME OR THAT IM LOOSING HIM. I NO DEEP DOWN HE DOES LOVE ME BUT IM NOT THAT PERSON HE WANTS TO BE WITH. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

(Screen) Name: NORMA’H817

I have a boyfriend but i’m falling for my best friend

I have a boyfriend for more that 4 years. Everything seemed fine until my friend and I became close. We talk a lot, spend much time toghether, we go out. I feel that i’m becoming attracted to my friend, and the love for my boyfriend is fading. I’m not sure if i love him or i’m just used being with him. I’m more confused because my friend seems to have some feelings for me too. I don’t know what he really feels for me. I know I care about him a lot, but is it love? where is the line between frienship and love? i really wanna figure out what i feel, because i wanna be honest to myself and to the persons that care about me. I don’t want to hurt them.

(Screen) Name: Hikari

i will keep the feeling inside…

I am in love with one of my bestfriends.. the feeling comes 0ut 0f my c0ntr0l… i l0ve him s0 much…but, i cann0t express my feelings t0 him… n it hurt me da m0st when he is n0w running away fr0m me…i feel like l0sing him f0rever…i l0st my bestfren… (@_@) im afraid t0 get in l0ve again… im afraid 0f been leavin by the pers0n dat i l0ve…. just like what my ex n he did t0 me… i h0pe he will be fine whenever he is…

(Screen) Name: lonesome

I NEED LOVING!!!!

I am so close to being unfaithful with my girl!!!!. The thing is she doesnt want to have sex and we have been together for two years we have done it plenty of times but all of a sudden she says  “wait for me if you love me”  its been like 5 months…WHAT TO DO???

(Screen) Name: UNFAITHFUL

Forever?

sooooooooo……….. i have always been in serious relationships. i have been cheated on with every single man i have ever been in a relationship with and now i am dated am italian who is super amazing but i am too afraid that i will end up in situtations like before. And i think something is wrong with me because i always getting cheated on.and i have always think that the present man that i am with is going to with me forever 🙁 sad isn’t it

(Screen) Name: riah