SO CONFUSED!
Me and this guy have been friends for a while. He was very persistant in getting me to go out with him on a date for months, convincing me he was exactly what I needed. When I gave him a chance he was everything i could of hoped for and more. He told me he was falling for me and things seemed perfect. Than all of a sudden he stopped answering me, was acting strange, and completely cut me out of his life. I have no idea what happened.
He is stuck in his ways, and you would assume this thought would regard being a home-body or even conservative. This relationship was exactly the opposite. He was afraid to get out of his pattern of sexual promiscuity and was unable to committ to a partner. No matter how hard he fell for me, or how well we got along, he picked and analyzed everything about our relationship to find something wrong with me, even when their wasn’t anything going wrong. Any tiny mistake I made was blown out of proportion completely.
Months after he completely cuts me out of his life for no specific reason he still contacts me. We will go weeks without seeing eachother or speaking, because I am fed up with his games and clear confusion regarding himself, his life, and his intentions with me. When we bump into eachother the next day he will contact me, try and see me and spend time with me. When/ If I finally cave and give into his constant persistence to see me, when we are together its in a group setting! And he makes no effort to fix whatever went wrong. I can’t figure out what he’s doing! Is he playing games with me? Is he interested? Does he care and not know how to show it? Do I confront him about how I feel? HELP!
(Screen) Name: pogostick
Posted: March 17th, 2010 under Family Secrets, Love Secret.
Comments
Comment from Rajiv - March 21, 2010 at 9:10 pm
Dear, all that I can tell u is that this guy isn’t in love with you. If you really wanna know what love is grab a bible and see what it says love is (book of 1corinthians chapter 13). True love will never try to find fault or condemn. It always covers the other. Cut this relationship off, then will he know how much you were of value to him. Someday he will realize. Also, God has better plans for you. Ask him to reveal it to you and certainly he will 
coz God loves to answer his children and give the best to him. God bless you.
Comment from hypocrite - March 21, 2010 at 11:40 pm
I agree with Rajiv this guy clearly does not love you, hes probably done the same thing to a bunch of girls and your were just another fling i doubt he feels the same way as u do. ITs called bein in college all college guys r jsut looking to get down with as many girls as they can expecially where your at n with the clubbing players u clearly love to deal with. Its sad that your so hung up on this guy when u have an awesome guy whos legit so in love with u and one of the best most loyal person that ive ever met. What i dont understand is why you keep stringing him along like u love him while you clearly dnt give a shit about him n jsut keep cheating on him and letting him think you actually are in love with him when you dnt really even care. i think what u r doing is disgusting bc tht guy is my good friend who showed me this post and honestly you really drive him nuts i dnt know what he even sees in you all you do is drive him crazy and make him a total wreck all the time. you dnt deserve a guy like him. He dosent know how to let you go i think you should be the one to let him go bc your relationship really fucks with his head and if u care about him at all you shouldnt string him along and keep shitting on him like you do he dosent deserve it what he deserves is a girl that will love him and be faithful and honest with him. so go chase after your boy who dosent like you and let my friend go and live his life.
Comment from leah love - March 23, 2010 at 2:53 pm
sorry rajiv i dun agree with you……”love is patient…..somehow,that guy there is confused…and obviously he is imperfect jus like everyone of us in the world…he hasn been living a “healthy life” and perhaps u jus woke him up dat he has new visions of his future…..but still ,its difficult to start things anew with you….which explains why he keeps ignoring u….wad i believe is that there is a reason why god puts thru u this….well u can reflect and think if u need this person….if he can be god’s gift to you….then perhaps u shud ask him wads wrong…convince him that u r the one for him…that u r sincere….he probably has a bad impression abt love(taking ino consideration of his sexual promiscuity)……if u wan him in ur life,give all u have(love)……dun be afraid….cos god is looking out for you…..and wen u look back,u wun regret it…if u dun think hes the one for u,be happy and thankful for the memories:)….
Comment from sim - April 5, 2010 at 7:55 am
why sould you wait for someone like this …. people say everything they want… you ask urself… u wanna wait…or let go hmm?
goodluck
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