I love him…i think..

I love him with all my heart. Then he came into my life again. I never thought i would see him again. Then he tells me he loves me. I’m the type of person that falls for the person who is into them first. So now i think i love him and we talk….about things that a couple talks about…..if you know what i mean. I feel terrible because i know that it will never work and also i love my boyfriend

(Screen) Name: Lolo


I think I’m falling for him. Not sure what to do. We met through facebook about two months ago. I never accept friend requests from guys I don’t know, but for some reason I accepted his. I was worried at first, you know? You never know who’s being real over the internet. But he turned out to be a great guy, who thinks I’m beautiful, though I don’t believe it myself. We talk everyday, but have only hung out three times so far. This is mostly because of travel distance. There is a catch, and it’s kind of a big one. He’s 31 and I’m only 18. Never in a million years would I ever consider dating someone that much older, but we get along so well. Incredibly well. We have so many similar interests and share the same ideas. I doubt many people would approve of us dating, specifically because of the age thing. In our minds, age is just a number. I want to make it work. I really want to get to know him better, but distance makes it hard. The feelings I have now are strong, and I find myself genuinely caring about his happiness and dreams. I feel a strong connection. I guess its up to God if this will work. I believe everything happens for a reason, so if this is meant to work, I’m sure we will find a way to make it so. I cry when I read his texts, out of happiness of the possibility of finding someone so great. Is that ridiculous? I don’t know. I just feel a connection. I could be wrong, but my gut tells me I’m right. I haven’t told him any of this, and none of our friends know we talk yet because we don’t know how they would react to the age difference. What should I do??

(Screen) Name: superconfused

Long story…

Its a long story,…

Don’t even know how to start..start in the middle.. I just recently got back from another country like last year. I did have a bf there, yes I did love him very much, but when I came back in here. I been thinking about leaving him, I don’t know if because its long distance or maybe he wasn’t giving something i needed. We did have communication, the only time I loved him was when i get a chance to talk to him, but then I start thinking about leaving him. Thats not really the problem. It started when I started working back to where I used to work. At first I was 2nd shift, then a few weeks gone by I start working morning shifts. It was nothing at first when I meet him I came at 5 am in the morning, saw him working at the front. Me i was all around. I thought he was cute, I even thought he was younger than me. He’s that guy that jokes, funny guy. It wasn’t that week that I got to know him, it was the following week when he wanted to watch a movie, he was asking people who wanted to come. It was a saturday, I didnt know if he was joking or not. He ask me if i wanted to go with him, I said I’ll think about it ’cause I had other plans already. But I wanted to go with him, I don’t know why. What happen was I cancel my plan and went with him. It went well I even took my sister with me. He other another job, he only work weekends where I work. Then it was then, he ask me again, if he wanted to watch a movie, I said sure. But only me and him.. We did, at first I was shy that he wanted to hold my hand. Thinking about my bf back home, but eventually we started holding hands, then after the movie, we didn’t want to go home. We talked, and then he mention something like how he wanted to kiss me, im just there sitting, actually waiting for him to kiss me. Then we got to my house we sat in the car again, told me he really wanted to kiss me, it took a few mins we finally did. I did feel bad, eventually I broke up with my bf telling him a bunch of reasons why i wanted to break up with him. Thats only half of the story… We went out again.. but this time we wanted to do it.. So we went to hotel, he ask me if i was sure and I said yes im sure. So then we did, the next day it was sunday.. We were both tired, saw each other at work, just looking each other with a smile. Then he started working weekdays in the morning. After work we would go to a park just spend some time. At first I didnt know if I was in love, eventually I was. he would make time for me, to go out and just to be with me. Really the point of this story is.. he has a family. Sometimes I ask myself how do I get involve in this kind of situation. But I never regret meeting him, he just so different. Always something different with him. Since his wife started a scene at our work, there’s people that just dont mind their own business. He told his wife, we’re just friends. Even though it hurts, I told her that too. He told me he loved me, I believe him i do too. I tell him everything, he does too. No matter how I try to forget him when he argue sometimes, I can’t. He’s everything I need. Noone knows this relationship except two friends of mine. Not even my family know wats going on with me or even at work. Sometimes its so hard to keep everything inside. The bad thing about this situation is, he told me his wife is pregnant… When we’re only been a month, he does want to leave his wife he’s just concern for his little girl. Of course her, how she going to survive with payments… Now Im waiting till august till the baby comes out, if ever gets that divorce. I know there’s so many guys out there and why him? Its because he accepted me for what I am, and my past. I made mistakes in my past, even now there’s still things I need to learn. But I could never let him go, he’s willing to give up everything for me and start a new life but it won’t be easy. I don’t know if i should wait, I want too but it hurts when you want him near you but at times you can’t. Mostly everyday we spend time together, only for a little while or the whole night. he told me that his wife knows that I’m the reason for this divorce but I dont even know if that ever going to happen. The love for both of them is not there anymore. I dont like seeing him stress out, but the only time I see him happy is when im with him… Most of the time, he’s with me if not he’s at work… There’s more to this..just dont know how to explain it..

(Screen) Name: ifonlyuknew


I am engaged to my fiancee’, but sometimes I really question if our relationship is going to last. Now I know that you might be thinking that I should have brought that up before we got engaged but they werent there at first. Maybe part of that reason is that we are in a long distance relationship for the time being. But my concerns grow more and more everyday especially because we argue a lot more than we ever used to. Maybe its the distance, but whatever it is, the doubts are still there.

(Screen) Name: confused

His mistress

I have been a mistress for over two years now. I am married and my husband knows and my married man wife knows. Its been fun and wild sex sometimes. We spend hours in bed a day. He hardly has time for work.

Will write more later. Starting a new facebook page for fellow mistress’s called “his mistress” come join me.

(Screen) Name: his mistress

I cheated…

I cheated on him in the first couple months of our relationship…twice. Once with a guy I used to have a thing with and the other with a guy on a Cruise I went on. We’ve been together for a year and I’ve never wanted to cheat again. I always thought that a cheater never changed but I know that I’m completely committed to him and I would never do that to him again. I never told anyone. And I don’t think I ever will.

(Screen) Name: LW

i want to……………..

okay so i have bin with my boyfriend for 8 months. and it gets harder and harder for us not to do it and we want to but im to scared to talk to my parents about it because then they wont let me go to my boyfriends house anymore and i like going over there so i dont know what to do.

(Screen) Name: i dont know what to do


I am trying to figure out what is going on with my boyfriend of almost a year. He says it is because he is not working and is having a hard time finding a job. But i know it is more than that. He has been flirting with other women online that he knew before me. We went from having sex all the time to hardly ever any more. We have not been together even a year yet. Do you think he is cheating on me?

(Screen) Name: littleindian78

I know he’s the one

I like this guy in my class, but he is dating one of my friends. He’s been a friend of mine for 2 years now and he knows how to make a person laugh. He is also really cute.
I just want to say I LOVE YOU TRAVIS!!!!!!!!!!!!
And I sorry I’m too scared to say it to your face.

(Screen) Name: SailorStorm