See, there’s this guy….

I met this guy on a chat thing called imvu. we’re the same age (almost 15), and we’re really good friends. i really like him; hes funny, and sweet, and he thinks im gorgeous….the problem is, i don’t know if he likes me back. see, we hang out in a group– there’s 5 of us– and he’s the one guy. so that leaves him with 4 other girls. I’m not worried about #s 1 and 2, but #3 (ashley) worries me. He and ashley talk so much more often than i do with him, so i’m afraid he’s falling for her and not me. but i asked him about it a couple weeks ago, and he just broke up with his girlfriend…. but that was a couple of weeks ago, and now I’m totally confused. what should i do? oh, and theres one other thing…. we live 500 miles apart. 🙁
helpppp!!!!!!

(Screen) Name: Kstarr101

Why is it so hard to live with a man that is hard to please?

Hello my name is samantha and I am nineteen and I have been happily and unhappilly engaged for over a year now and why I say that is because yeah I must confess that we do have some good times but they never last long enough. I get so aggrevated at him when he thinks that he allways has to be right and I’m allways wrong. I never know what i’m talking about and everytime I try to talk about anything he allways has something smart to say. Are all men like that? and every time I do something wrong the first thing that pops through his empty head is that he wants to trade me in for a new one. Even after trying to tell him that I’m not perfect nor do I ever plan on being perfect.

(Screen) Name: samantha Hensley

Torn</3

Alright..so I met a guy a few years back..sweetheart. We were friends from the very beginning. A few weeks ago..he told me he liked me and I liked him so we started going out. The thing that first had me one foot in and another out..is he is too busy for me at times. I know he would never cheat. He hasn’t even had a girlfriend in a few years. I started contiplating on our relationship..the second day of my hard thinking..another guy I was messaging back and forth to..text me and I started liking him. Not meaning to. I told him up front I had a boyfriend but we still acted as if I was single. I don’t know what it is about him..I just can’t help myself. I don’t know what to do! To make things worse..I recently found out he,too was in a relationship. I found out on my own! I was soo upset but I started to like him more. We go to different schools so I know we would never work bc I have trust issues but we wanna be together but we are stuck in relationships. At times I would worry about what was going on between us to the point I got sick so lastnight I cut off whatever it was that we had..OFF and all I wanna do is talk to him. I miss him soo much. Our relationship has pushed me away from my boyfriend..our relaionship was awkward before him but I don’t know where to go from here. Don’t wanna be torn:'(

(Screen) Name: young&&confused

Lost.

I was currently involved with a guy for a short time. but in that short time, we grew very close to each other. we were inseparable, we cared for each other, always put each other first. but then small things started happening between us. alot of it was the outside world saying things to him and i. but we didnt let that stop us from being together. until this one particular thing happened where he accused me of lying. and even though i can honestly say i dont remember lying about it, i still however apologized so we could move forward. but it really bothered him so we decided to take a step back and move slow. but this however caused even more problems because we didnt know what we were exactly to each other. i then “re-united” with an ex on a drunken night. and he found out, and i did lie to him because i was ashamed and i regretted it deeply, and i just recently admited to the lie. and i still want us to try to work things out, but he’s being a total jerk. and while i understand that i hurt him, i dont know if its fair for him to treat me this way. i feel like its childish for him to treat me a certain way to almost like “get back at me”. and now I’m torn between dealing with the fact that i messed up, or just walking away because i dont know how long this will carry on.

(Screen) Name: crystal14

WORD’S WHICH CAN END A RELATION

IT WAS A DAY WHEN I DECIDED TO ASK HER “MARRY ME” THE WORDS WHICH A GIRL REALY WANTS TO HEAR FROM A GUY WHO LOVES HER A LOT. AFTER GETTING 4 YEARS IN A RELATION IN BETWEEN TWO HALF YEARS AROUND SEPERATION.

SHE CALLED ME AGIAN JUST TO MEET HER I WAS LIVING ALONE GETTING ME HABIT OF LIVING WITHOUT HER. BUT WHEN SHE CALLED WE WENT TO HAVE DINNER WHERE SHE GOT DRUNKED & SPECIFY HOW MUCH SHE LOVED ME. WE ARE FROM DIFFERENT FAMILIES, DIFFERENT CULTURE & DIFFERENT CASTES. SHE IS A HINDU GIRL & I AM A MUSLIM GUY THAT WAS A BIGGEST REASON OF OUR SEPARATION.

BUT THAT NIGHT SHE FIRES THE TWILIGHT OF LOVE IN MY HEART AGAIN AFTER TWO HALF YEARS. AFTER DROPPING HER TO HOME I WAS GETTING DEEPER & DEEPER IN LOVE WITH HER DAY BY DAY. BUT IF HAPPINESS IS THERE FOR SOMETIMES SADNESS WILL DEFINITELY COMES FOR SURE FOR ALL TIME.

SHE WANTS ME TO BE GETTING MARRIED WITH A MUSLIM GIRL BUT WHEN I TOLD HER I WANT TO MARRY HER SHE TOLD ME THAT CANNOT BE POSSIBLE. THEN I TOLD HER TO STAY WITH ME TILL THE TIMES COMES SHE TOLD ME THAT ALSO CANNOT BE POSSIBLE.

THEN I ASKED HER “YOU LOVED ME OR NOT” SHE TOLD ME THAT LOVE IS NOTHING YOU HAVE TO FORGOT ME & I DONT KNOW WHAT IS LOVE. THEN SHE ASKED ME WHAT I CAN DO FOR YOU TO FORGET ME THAT WAS THE TIME MY HEART WAS SO HEAVY I JUST WANT TO TELL HER SOMETHING BY WHICH SHE NEVER TURNS BACK TO ME THEN I TELL HER ” TO HAVE SEX WITH ME” THE WORD WHICH NEVER EVER SHE EXPECT FROM ME WITH A HUMBLING VOICE & AFTER SAW SOME TEARS IN HER EYES I REALISE THAT WHAT MISTAKE I HAVE DONE. I LOST HER MIGHT BE FOR MY WHOLE LIFE BUT THE BURDEN OF HER TEARS WILL ALWAYS STAY WITH ME. I NEVER EVER CAN LOOK AGAIN INTO HER BEAUTIFUL EYES. THE DATE 11-10-10 WAS THE DATE WHICH I NEVER FORGET. THE NIGHT WHO CRIES BOTH OF US ALOT. THAT’S THE END OF PARV’S & PARI’S STORY.
I TRULY STILL WANTS HER BACK IN MY LIFE BUT I KNOW SHE NEVER WANTS TO BE MY LIFE.

(Screen) Name: PARV

wat 2 think

Its crazy because i was played n i know i was so much proof right in my eyes me showing the man i love this stuff and he denies it n i think 2 myself how would he feel if i played him but now he is trying to change but i feel like my heart is lost wat should i do

(Screen) Name: truth hurts

is it love

i been seing this person for 6 years .well his married but his wife is also cheating on him.i think i love him in not sure.when i dont see him i miss him alot.and he have passionet love he makes me feel so alive.but im also very scare beacuse i know will never be a real couple and i know that when he leaves me im going to be crush with out him.im so confuse what should i do?

(Screen) Name: susana

My First Love

Dear Readers,

I fell in love with the most carin, sweetest, lovin, outgoin, BEYOND sexy, honest, trustworthy, passionate, romantic, gentleman-type guy EVER 2yrs ago. We started off as friends, turned lovers 6mths later, & now our relationship with each other is complicated because we’re “friends” but everytime we’re around each other we’re more like “bf/gf” even if we’re both in relationships. Im still in love with him & i know for a fact that he’s still in love with me but the only thing is he’s still in school & im not. We broke up a yr ago because he claimed to have stronger feelings for his exgf but if that was so true why did he cheat on her & every other gf he had for me? He’s not the only guilty one because at the time i had a bf of 9mths & 3wks & i cheated on him 8mths out of our relationship for my ex. I know it sounds bad & wrong but have ya’ll ever had a first love that you just couldn’t get over because he was too special & you were around him ALOT? Well that’s how my ex is. He was there for me during a very hard time in my life & ever since then we’ve been close. Even though i told him i was ok with us dating other people i wasn’t because i HATED seein him walk down the hall with his gf because NO LIE it made me feel kind of jealous. Me & him been through hell & back together & i don’t want to give him up for nothing in the world. On top of him being my first love he was also my “first”. That moment was the most beautiful, passionate, fiery moment i’ve ever experienced because it wasn’t just sex or just a quickie…we made love. Most adults would say teens don’t know what love is but everyone has a different definition of love because everyone have different feelings toward people. I know he’s my first love because i NEVER felt that way towards a guy. It’s hard to describe! When i’m with him i feel like a queen, like im unstoppable, & when we’re together it feels like me & him are the only ones in the world. He leaves me speechless everytime im with him, talk to him, or just think about him. I would do anything for him because i know he would do the same for me. He has a wonderful heart & great personality to match :). I love everything about him including his flaws because that’s what makes him. We might not be together ever again or we might but it doesn’t matter because if we’re not reunited on earth i know we’ll be together again in heaven because our love is everlasting. I love you K.J.G.J (3*29*09 Gon Last 4eva]

(Screen) Name: CandiKissez