This Is 4 Living A Lie

Nothing Or No One Is Worth Compromising Your Relationship With God. Having A Relationship With God Is Just As Real As Having A Relationship With Your Boyfriend. Only Guess What? God Loves You Way More Than Him! It’s The Truth… I’m 24yrs old & Ive Made Some Terrible Mistakes In My Life. Just Like You I’ve Been So Deeply In Love With Boyfriends That I did Anything For Them. I Too Am A Now Devoted Christian, But Back Then… I Even Went As Far As Getting Pregnant For One Guy When I Knew I didn’t Want Any Kids & Guess What He Left Me High & Dry. Unfortunately My baby died. However, The Truth of The Matter Is That Not A Single Person on This Earth Can Complete You Like Jesus Christ Can. Stand Up Girl & BE A BRIDE OF CHRIST! Stop Giving This Boy Your Body!!!! If He Loved You, He Would Respect Your Wishes & Wait To Marry You. Trust Me When I say This, At Your Age, He Is Not Serious And He Is Not Thinking About Getting Married. He’s Thinking About He’s Next Way Of “Hitting It”. What I would Suggest For You To Do Is Separate Yourself From Seeing Him, Stand Strong In Your Beliefs Of Waiting For Sex B4 Marriage. Then Lastly, Move On To Another Guy. After all, the best way to get over one guy is to find another one… Join a Site Like E-Harmony Where You Can Actually Find A Christian Man Who Is Willing To Wait For Sex. & Yes that is one of there pre-screening questions. I Usually Don’t Respond To People’s Comment’s That I Find On Random Websites, So I Hope You Take My Words To Heart.

(Screen) Name: Just2Live

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(Screen) Name: bcstim

Forgettable in Love

My first impression of this man was, forgettable. But as the days passed, I see in him things that makes my heart flutter. His gentleness, his humour, his patience and his sweet demeanor. I am in love, and this is the first time I’ve felt so strongly for someone. Every night before I sleep, I; foolishly replayed in my mind, all the things he did in my memory, our conversations, and little things like how he smiled and laughed, how his ears would turn red when he’s shy, or how he held out the door….. I am hopelessly in love…for the first time.

(Screen) Name: sweetpea

What should I do?

So for about a year I fancied this boy, I think Im in love but Im not sure :/ Well I really like him, I think about him all the time, when ever I see him I get butterflies (Serious ones)…

It all started a year ago, I met him, he sat next to me in a park, we started talking, then he added me on facebook, we talked more, we saw eachother a couple of times and everything, but for some reason we stopped talking…I didn’t see him at all!

Then about 4 months ago I saw him again, I didn’t want to speak to him because I wasn’t sure if he remembered me…His friends were mates with my friends and he sat right infront of me, I just couldn’t look at him because I would get SUPER butterflies…When I got home I had a messege from him saying ‘Where was my hug and hello? ;D ‘ And that’s when we started to talk again, he flirted and I must admitt I was flirt aswell, we met a couple of times, he kept on winking and me, and whistling when ever he saw me, we talked more and more everyday, but just in one day ( About a month ago) We stopped talking AGAIN! He still whistles sometimes, and when he sees me he looks back everytime, but when I write on facebook he doesn’t answer…I think I love him, I cryed a couple of times…I want to forget about him and just let him go but my friend said, before you let go, remember why you kept on trying for this long :/ I’m not sure what to do…Some people say he likes me but I haven’t got the guts to ask him…Should I let go or keep trying :/? PLEASE HELP..

(Screen) Name: Helpless.

This Is 4 Living A Lie

Nothing Or No One Is Worth Compromising Your Relationship With God. Having A Relationship With God Is Just As Real As Having A Relationship With Your Boyfriend. Only Guess What? God Loves You Way More Than Him! It’s The Truth… I’m 24yrs old & Ive Made Some Terrible Mistakes In My Life. Just Like You I’ve Been So Deeply In Love With Boyfriends That I did Anything For Them. I Too Am A Now Devoted Christian, But Back Then… I Even Went As Far As Getting Pregnant For One Guy When I Knew I didn’t Want Any Kids & Guess What He Left Me High & Dry. Unfortunately My baby died. However, The Truth of The Matter Is That Not A Single Person on This Earth Can Complete You Like Jesus Christ Can. Stand Up Girl & BE A BRIDE OF CHRIST! Stop Giving This Boy Your Body!!!! If He Loved You, He Would Respect Your Wishes & Wait To Marry You. Trust Me When I say This, At Your Age, He Is Not Serious And He Is Not Thinking About Getting Married. He’s Thinking About He’s Next Way Of “Hitting It”. What I would Suggest For You To Do Is Separate Yourself From Seeing Him, Stand Strong In Your Beliefs Of Waiting For Sex B4 Marriage. Then Lastly, Move On To Another Guy. After all, the best way to get over one guy is to find another one… Join a Site Like E-Harmony Where You Can Actually Find A Christian Man Who Is Willing To Wait For Sex. & Yes that is one of there pre-screening questions. I Usually Don’t Respond To People’s Comment’s That I Find On Random Websites, So I Hope You Take My Words To Heart.

(Screen) Name: Just2Live

“getting jealous”

hi..im girl 19 years old..i have a boyfriend i love him so much..and i know dat he love me also,.,.but im in prone of jealousy..im not easily get jealous before..but when im with him now i reli wander if he reli love me becoz when somebody text him he dont want me to read even we are just in one sweet home..sometimes i feel like he hide something from me ..i also wander why his phone has a pasword then i cannot open it..i trust him but sometimes there is something played on my mine dat it could not feel me good..i reli love him so much even we think about marriage this year,.but he has a lot of past..he has so many girls before and im not sure if now is same or not>?
when we are in bed when we talked i reli feel his love..even outside when we go together in romantic place..he is so sweet..but in my mine think dat i feel he reli hide me something..i dont know what was it?
he told me he dont like i get jealous easily..i want to be with him always and i want to make sure that only me he love..one time when we watch tv somebody text him..i dont mine but when i want to see he dont want me to see it..and when i said its ok..the girl text again and this time i see the screen name of the girl..i felt jealous because i know this girl he had relation before..i wander why they keep contacting each other.i ask about it..he said coz of business matters,.he said he used this girl..but i feel pity myself..he said he used this,,,does he just used me also?i dont know what to do…plz help me…

(Screen) Name: crazy_jalousy_confused girl

Are we really only FWB’s

I am a divorced single mom of 2. Several years ago I met a man that I’d seen a few times and thought to be very goodlooking. We hit it off, and fell in love. He told myself and other’s that I was the one for him. Life was great. We talked about living together, and eventually getting married. Unfortunately my kids didn’t like him, and he had mommy issues (she lived with him). Then I got pregnant. But thankfully had a miscarriage. The relationship fell apart shortly after.
We remained friends (as I’m his one and only friend) About 3 years later, we ended up dating again, this time for about 7 months. We just don’t work as a couple. We then decided we’d be FWB’s (Friends with Benefits) It works great. Now the problem is I love him, yet I know we’d never work as couple yet we do all the same things as b4 when we were dating. We’ve both tried dating other people, but always end up back with each other. I just spent the last 2 weeks with him on holidays, and it was awesome. Yet neither of us wants to commmit. I’ve been given 4-9 years to live as my kidneys are bad. Hence the reason I don’t want to commit, and I guess that’s his reasoning to. We don’t talk about my situation alot as I want to live while I can. Right now I’m confused as to what we’re really doing. I’ve had other offers to date other men, which I’ve turned down, cuz I don’t want to lose what I have with him. Am I being silly and wasting my last years with him or do I just enjoy what works. Any advice?

(Screen) Name: Confused and dying.

i loved him at first “chat”

I met this guy online, he’s Italian/American and he’s everything im looking for in a partner. I think he’s the one, im impressed by him since the first chat, and im really scared to tell him bcoz he might freak out !!

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(Screen) Name: XXX

I Can’t Believe I’m Saying This!

Ok I totally must be stupid but I have to confess: I think I love my best friend Calen! We tried going out one time when we were little but because of other people we broke up the same day we got together. I thought I was over him but after seeing him for the first time in so long, all I can think of is him. When we saw each other again he looked so different because i mean we kept in touch but now he looked amazing. When we hung out yesterday we were wrestling, watching movies, and being silly just how we used to be. I don’t know what to do! I think the feelings from the past are coming back and i just can’t stop it.

(Screen) Name: Cupid in love

So I fell in love with my ex’s best friend

So I fell in love with my ex’s best friend… while we were still in the relationship and before he became ‘the ex’. I was with ‘N’ for eight miserable months: he was a nasty little man and
an abusive alcoholic, who at 42 had become so bitter about life, so resentful of anyone else’s happiness, and so filled with hatred that you would have sworn he was an old man who had spent his life in the gutter. Then there was ‘P’… well the fact that he looked like the early Hollywood actor Robert Taylor didn’t hurt 🙂 but it was his character and demeanor that really
got me. He was intelligent, educated, cultured, and refined. He spoke to me properly, adult-to-adult the way grown ups should speak to one another. He was respectful, and not in a fawning,
false way but genuinely respectful – of himself and others. And he was a gentleman… in truth, he was the very antithesis of ‘N’ Days, and weeks, and months dragged on and I found myself slowly but surely confronted with the fact that my relationship with ‘N’ was doomed and had been from the start.
I had already become aware that I I was falling in love with ‘P’ and although I knew such feelings weren’t ‘right’ I never regretted them: they were what got me through; what made it possible to bear the deep stress of having to walk away from ‘N’ for my own mental health and general wellbeing. I clung to them and held tight to them as the survivor of a shipwreck does to floating debris, to keep from drowning in turbulent waters.. I cherish them to this day because they ‘saved’ me from the very real threat of believing the ’noise’ coming out of someone else’s mouth that I was useless, worthless, hard to love, a whore, etc, blah blah.
This all happened thirteen years ago now, and I still think about ‘P’ and still hold the same feelings for him.
I NEVER told him how I felt or ever let on to anyone what had happened – to this day he doesn’t know and he never will. I do not need him to: it is enough for me that I know… that my capacity to actually fall deeply in love with a man at such a crucial point in my life reminded me I was a woman,
and helped me be strong enough to break free of an abusive relationship.
Now that I am older I have one regret: that I did not drop ‘N’ like a hot potato the very moment I laid eyes on ‘P’ and pursue him for all that it was worth! But, then my life would have been in danger of a happy ending, and how boring would that have been! 😉

(Screen) Name: RanKuoRen