Please advice me

Hi
We are in true love till 10 month as I fell. But one time we a lot of discussion about her past and I used some bad word for her bcoz still she showing her past many years living relations couple pictures in her friend’s facebook. She sent me relationship request to me but I keep it pending because in her friend’s facebook circle there are a lot of her picture with ex bf like they are couple and wife/husband. And wait to accept it when she delete everything bcoz I also wanna to show her in my circle too. So many times I told her if u can’t remove these things I can’t accept it. And many time we had a lot of discussion about these pictures. But she told she can’t remove it because “she doesn’t know her friends facebook password”. Even they are her best and close friends.

Same time she got good financially opportunities with new man. He offer part job with good salary and new room for living inside his living apartment in free of cost. Even she was the permanent employee in repopulate international organization. And she went go with new man bcoz of money ( I think it) and end the relation with me suddenly within 4/5 days. But I was unknown about it and living in another place. I fell something different about her communication and one day I ask about it. But she didn’t inform me anything.

But it was important for me to know about the fact. So one day I made the fake plan and warning her if she don’t inform me the fact I will misuse her facebook ( we share our facebook passwords) and she really fear and tell everything about the relation with new man. New man was her patient son and came from aboard for treatment in her hospital. And she told me he is rich man and wanna to love and care me, so she went with him. And start to live his building and beginning for relax life with him. I was stocked It happened within 1 week

After ending relation with me till 2 month, she didn’t pick up my call and didn’t reply of my any message. Sometime I just wanna to talk and listen her voice but she never talk and reply. I was very upset and painfully but she never look toward me. So sometime, I use rude and bad words again.

But after 2/3 month later she contacts me in skype and I asked about her life. She informed me that she can’t be happy with new man for future life. He only take care her that time. I don’t know what is the exact reason but I fell now she is not satisfied with new man for long term relation. Right now she is on my communication by webcam from few days. In past I had 100% trust and believe on it. I think she is honest and to whom I can trust.

But now how I can believe and trust on her. Once if we lost the trust it was very hard to recover again and sometime impossible. What should I need to do?
• Forget her from my life
• Just continue communication like past
• Just behave as normal friend( which is impossible)
• Forgive her ( why forgive her . I am not her 1st love. She is experienced)
Please I kindly request to advise me. Because of my story I was disturbed in my life and study too. I want to final it. I need ur suggestion plz sothat I can strong on my decision. In past, I think she loves me more then I love her. Now is this true after you knowing my story?
Plz plz advice me.

(Screen) Name: bbpp

plz share ur felling plz ready this story

We are in true love till 10 month as I fell. But one time we a lot of discussion about her past and I used some bad word for her bcoz still she showing her past many years living relations couple pictures in her friend’s facebook. She sent me relationship request to me but I keep it pending because in her friend’s facebook circle there are a lot of her picture with ex bf like they are couple and wife/husband. And wait to accept it when she delete everything bcoz I also wanna to show her in my circle too. So many times I told her if u can’t remove these things I can’t accept it. And many time we had a lot of discussion about these pictures. But she told she can’t remove it because “she doesn’t know her friends facebook password”. Even they are her best and close friends.

Same time she got good financially opportunities with new man. He offer part job with good salary and new room for living inside his living apartment in free of cost. Even she was the permanent employee in repopulate international organization. And she went go with new man bcoz of money ( I think it) and end the relation with me suddenly within 4/5 days. But I was unknown about it and living in another place. I fell something different about her communication and one day I ask about it. But she didn’t inform me anything.

But it was important for me to know about the fact. So one day I made the fake plan and warning her if she don’t inform me the fact I will misuse her facebook ( we share our facebook passwords) and she really fear and tell everything about the relation with new man. New man was her patient son and came from aboard for treatment in her hospital. And she told me he is rich man and wanna to love and care me, so she went with him. And start to live his building and beginning for relax life with him. I was stocked It happened within 1 week

After ending relation with me till 2 month, she didn’t pick up my call and didn’t reply of my any message. Sometime I just wanna to talk and listen her voice but she never talk and reply. I was very upset and painfully but she never look toward me. So sometime, I use rude and bad words again.

But after 2/3 month later she contacts me in skype and I asked about her life. She informed me that she can’t be happy with new man for future life. He only take care her that time. I don’t know what is the exact reason but I fell now she is not satisfied with new man for long term relation. Right now she is on my communication by webcam from few days. In past I had 100% trust and believe on it. I think she is honest and to whom I can trust.

But now how I can believe and trust on her. Once if we lost the trust it was very hard to recover again and sometime impossible. What should I need to do?
• Forget her from my life
• Just continue communication like past
• Just behave as normal friend( which is impossible)
• Forgive her ( why forgive her . I am not her 1st love. She is experienced)
Please I kindly request to advise me. Because of my story I was disturbed in my life and study too. I want to final it. I need ur suggestion plz sothat I can strong on my decision. In past, I think she loves me more then I love her. Now is this true after you knowing my story?
Plz plz advice me.

(Screen) Name: bbpp

Hi…I am married for the past 4 yrs and also have a daughter who has turned 3 this year.My life has become really miserable because my Husband is a workaholic kind of a person with very less emotions.He spends no time with both of us and looking at all these i am always upset.On the other hand i am very love and care hungry person but my husband on the other hand is always concerned with himself.We hardly talk to each other and if somehow we communicate than we end up arguing.So i try to mange things on my own, i hardly ask any financial help from even though h earns very well….i am confused please help and i am also really tired and seek love and help.

(Screen) Name: Jenny

Broken but smiling

I am a twenty year old college student who has been through four relationships, the last one I cannot seem to get over. Calling my ex significant other “Az”, I met Az online and befriended them almost immediately, wanting to know more about them and even exchanging Skype names and phone numbers. It turns out Az rarely gives online friends their phone number, so I felt really special. I decided I wanted to meet Az, and over the next couple of months, we grew to like each other beyond friendship and even plan to go on a date when I visit. But, throughout that…Az kept trying to push me away, calling me blind and saying that they didn’t love me or anything like that…I didn’t know what was going on, I didn’t love Az but they kept believing I did. Once so sweet and gentle hearted to me, they’ve become teasing and almost mean spirited, though not in a bad way. A few times, Az would revert back to that kind and gentle person that made me feel genuinely special. Over time, even the other side of Az made me smile and chuckle.

Az asked me out on Easter morning, saying that they couldn’t wait any longer and wanted to be with me. I said yes, and we were a couple. Three weeks later, I began my trip to where Az lived…I was delayed for four days, the one day being the reason that I wanted to care for a sick girl on the bus I was riding…I didn’t want to leave her alone. It hurt so bad, having to IM Az and hear her (I’m admitting it, Az is a woman) dead and tired voice on the phone…I found out later that she would not sleep or even leave her house…for four days, because I wasn’t there. She kept telling me: “I’m not getting my way…all I want to do right now is see you.”

It hurt so bad, I almost had multiple emotional breakdowns on the bus, a friend that I made on there holding me as I kept repeating how sorry I was to my laptop. I finally got there, and she came to pick me up wit her friends. As soon as I saw her, my heart leaped in my chest and I smiled…I was truly happy, I felt everything would be alright.

By the second day I was there, everything began going downhill….she would snap at her best friend whenever she would try to talk to me, glare at her two friends when I would pay attention to them….and finally, when we were alone in her house…Az broke up with me…telling me “I was like a sister to her”. I never felt so heart broken in my life, I went through all of that hell, that horrid nightmare on trying to see her…and she broke up with me. And that’s not the worst of it…I knew she was lying to me. A while back, she had told me her heart was broken once and she gained committment issues, also she admitted to me that she used people in relationships for lust, then broke it off when she felt nothing. But…unlike her other ex’s…she didn’t touch me. We never kissed on the lips, had any intimate contact…nothing. She wouldn’t touch me. At times she teasingly carressed me, in the way that seemed to be saying: “You’re mine.” and even after the break up, she still did that at times. I spent the next couple of days there, her ignoring me and trying to get me on a bus home. I wasn’t able to so I stayed at the now ex best friend (who found out what happened)’s house. Az found this out, and when we drove to her house to pick up something the ex best friend wanted, Az stomped up to the car and began demanding me what was going on, why I wasn’t on the bus. I refused to look at her and answered her questions, I looked up once and she was glaring at the ex best friend with this hatred I have never seen before. Before I knew it, Az was holding my hand, clutching and stroking it, repeating: “If you called me I would have helped you…” in that voice as if to say: “Why did you call HER instead of ME?”

She ignored me for awhile after that, even after I went home…telling me about these other friends who she “married” online, flirting with others…it hurt me more and more, but I continued to talk to her. I even still gave her the ring (which is a family heirloom) that I was to give her as a promise ring…I told her just to keep it as a friendship ring. She replied that “she didn’t feel comfortable wearing it” and that was the end of that…I thought so anyway. Within a month, she flat out told me on the phone that she was wearing it. She now wears it on the ring finger she wears her mother’s ring, below that ring. She does continue to call me on the phone (I being really the only one she does this to), I see her good and her bad side…I went through a stage of obsession at one point, but recently got over it. I do get jealous still, but then again she is no exception. From what I have noticed, whenever someone speaks intimately with me or playfully flirts with me, she immediately comes in and is either hissy toward me, rants a little (making no sense) or vice versa to the other person. My best friend doesn’t think she likes me like that anymore, but I honestly can’t believe her…as she has switched time and again on her opinion of this. Other people ask me if there’s something going on between us, I reply no…despite the fact that she has claimed me as her online wife. Sometimes it hurts to talk to her, she says things to me like: “Yeah, well, caring never gets you too far does it?” while before that, whenever I’m upset, she would tell me that everything will be fine and try her hardest to cheer me up…even call me on the phone and talk to me for hours. I…I honestly do believe I have fallen in love with her, which I have never done before…and even though it hurts to think about it, if it’s not meant to be…then I just want her happy. Her friends call me desperate, pathetic, creepy and weird…she says she likes the creepiness about me and called her own friends “pathetic”. She has admitted that she is in love with someone, will NOT say anything to me or anyone…she even told her friend: “Not even *my name* knows…” which confuses me, considering she rarely talks to me about anything personal..and she knows how I feel about her, I bluntly wrote her a love poem and she knows it. Az is even planning to come visit me…she wants to try visiting me as early as possible, as soon as she gets enough money. But I don’t know when that’ll be….she never takes off the ring or the necklace I made for her though.

I just don’t know WHAT her feelings are at this point, why she won’t let me help her when she’s having a bad day and turns to others, why she won’t tell me who she likes if she knows I am in love with her, why she wore the ring even when she said she wouldn’t…her jealousy and possessive over me…I’m so confused, people tell me I should talk to her…but to be honest, though communication is important…with her, I don’t think that’ll be a good turn of action.

I’m sorry if this made no sense, I want someone to help me so badly…I just need someone to talk to, someone to hear me rant and not judge me on this…if she keeps calling me a “sister”, why does she also call me her wife, wear the ring I was to give her as a promise ring and then have jealousy issues over me which she’ll never admit?

But…all in all, I forgave her for what she did to me. People think I’m crazy for doing so…and I know what she did ripped my heart out….but I forgave her. In closing, I will tell you two things that I keep thinking about to this day.

Her best friend told me she planned a surprise for me, which she did tell me about and would never tell me what it was. It turns out she was planning to take me to a lake at night, my favorite setting which I had told her about, have a picnic set up for me that she cooked herself and even serenade me with a song I told her once that I would love to hear her sing. She was going to take me on a nature walk around the park where the lake was, we would go stargazing…and finally, she was going to give me her own promise ring. I keep thinking about it, and it hurts…it hurts so bad, yet it makes me smile. She planned that for me, she never planned something special for anyone…but she planned that for me. (I’m sorry, I’m actually crying as I type this out, but I’m still smiling)

Then…her other best friend told me something that Az had told her recently about the break up: “I hate myself…I hate myself for what I did to her, how I broke up with her…I didn’t want to do it that way. I broke her, made her cry, ignored her…I can never forgive myself for what I put that girl through. But, she forgave me..she forgave me.” Her best friend had told me that Az said this a few months or so after the break up, while she was crying (and apparently she never cries) over her friends turning against her about this incident…but she never blamed me, never spoke an ill word about me…she spoke about her ex friend in almost a jealous manner, an angry manner…but apparently said everything about me in the highest respect. “It wasn’t her fault, don’t blame her please…it wasn’t her fault. I need to help her, I need to help her get home..she needs to be safe, she needs to be safe.”

I remember once that in a blog post, Az asked people to describe themselves as what they are to her. I jokingly told her to describe me instead. I got the answer: “You’re just indescribable”…and I honestly don’t know what she means.

Thank you for hearing me out. If anyone wishes to contact me, please do tell me. And also give me your opinions. Have a great day.

~Misguided Angel (a name my friend described me as when I told her about this)

(Screen) Name: Misguided Angel

Fun!

I have never told anyone this, but I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 1/2 years now and have been having sex with a guy at my work. (literally at my work) HAHAHA. It is very exciting cause we are the only ones who know. We can have sex in a meeting room and ten minutes later there will be a meeting that both me and him have to go to with other co-workers and bosses. Them not knowing of course they are setting their arm on the table we just had sex on!!! LOL. Fun Stuff! WOOO HHHOOO! Finally I was able to say that somewhere!

(Screen) Name: Morganna

Sorry Love

I’m sorry that I say I love and don’t really know if I mean it or not. I want to feel if you truly love me but I’m so numb to emotion that I don’t know if you do. I wish I could say that we will last together but I do have my doubt because of all the times I cheated on you with my ex who was just using me any ways. I know you say you forgive me but with my mother in the way and hating every thing about you I don’t know how long I can hold on to you. I really feel sad when I’m not with you but I’m sorry babe that I don’t know if I love you.

(Screen) Name: kre397104

Luv

Our relationship has reached 3years and 2months before the girl left me for another guy. It happened that during our relationship,i used to beat her because of her indiscpline. When she left,i tried to let her understood dat mistakes will never repeat itself. Coz i cried and sicked when she left me. Now,am not in luv wit any other than that girl.

(Screen) Name: Elnino