i am 18 going on 19 years-old and all my life i have attracted many BEAUTIFUL woman. my father had alot of girlfriends b4 he passed and the same is expected for me but unfortunatly growing up without a father i have failed to explor my manly capabilities and am now an 18 year-old virgin. i am very embarissed and very lonely. i am an attractive handsom young man i have been told too many times. i have 110% respect for woman for i have grown up around females and still do. i am in collage in the bx,ny and have my priorities set. i am a nice guy so ive heard also too many times. i do what im supose to do but cannot live up to my expectations. yes it does drive me crazy to be a virgin because i know i am a good lover and i cannot go on a day without wanting to embrace the true beauty of the woman. i try to stay sane i really do. iv tried to ignor it, go for it, wait for it, and to except it but it is a huge distraction for me. i walk on the streets and see the most beautiful girl in the arms of the most corniest and dickheaded guy and it leaves me to ask my self; this guys can go on the streets kill god knows how many guys beat up how many guys or he can be the biggest ass whole in ny dressing in tight clothes like a girl with his pants saggin and he still gets the girl wile i watch. he can even be the most geekiest person and still a know it all asswhole and still get the girl. i begin to think im curse can somebody tell me something i dont know?

(Screen) Name: hoeluva

i like him but i don’t know.

i like this guys since last month. and i even like him more now. i can be crazy, and i just can’t help myself. the problem is i don’t know how to greet him when i meet him. well, we used to chat at facebook but we never talk when we meet. i’m too shy to greet him. i even try to run when i see him because my heart beat so quickly when he’s around. furthermore, he already in a relationship. he has girlfriend. i think i should stop liking him, but i don’t know. i just can’t do it. a few days ago, my friend said he stares me. maybe he want to greet me, i don’t know. can you help me? i don’t know what to do right now.

(Screen) Name: taylor swift’s fan.

Happy Landlord

When I rented his house, he stated that he knew we would be like sister and brother. After 8 years, I moved away for a job.

A year later, I’m back, in a good job. He always fixed my car, helped with my son, and was the best friend, ever! My previous white lover passed away in the wilderness, from hypothermia, a year ago.

I’m 44, petite, from Barbados, he’s 64, and white, (but looks and acts 45!). His GF of 10 years has depression, and seems to have lost her love desire.

So, we are in love, meet twice a week in my apartment, for dinner, company, and fantastic love sessions, plus, go out together.

He is handsome, and treats me like his queen, always telling me great things that boost my self-esteem, and my ego.

I think we are both lucky in love, and this will last for a very long time! I
am thrilled to be so deeply loved, first, as his dear friend, and now, in

(Screen) Name: Island gurl


I’m 20 and I’ve been dating a girl since I was 15. I’ve had other less serious girlfriends before her but I am her first serious boyfriend. At the beginning of our relationship I would talk to her about wanting to get married and have kids someday, but now that we’re in separate universities I’ve been feeling that I want to try being single again, at least for a little bit.
I know how shallow it sounds but I don’t want to grow up and basically have been married since 15. I would like to have the freedom to “Test the waters” but at the same time I know that if I break up with her after 5 years I’m not sure how she will handle it, especially with all the stress from her school. I still really care for her and if I had the chance I’d like to marry her someday. But I’m just not ready for it yet.
I didn’t know how to end a relationship that was going so well and we’ve been doing the long distance thing for almost 2 years now. We fought a lot last year but we’re better at it this year, although I still sometimes find her really clingy, like she can’t last a day by herself. For example, I have a way to make a lot of money this upcoming summer by going away for 2 months or so. The money will easily cover my next year’s school tuition but she obviously will be pissed at me if I leave.
I cant tell her any of these thoughts I’m having because she will automatically take it as me not loving her anymore (she seems to view the world in a totally “black and white, all or nothing” kind of way). I just don’t know what I should do. Please, can anyone help me?

(Screen) Name: Questioning