That Kiss…

Hi, So this is along story. I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 years. I love my boyfriend so much, but we’ve been trough a lot. For starters we are very different people, we always fight over the stupidest things and in the years before we used to break up a lot. Which led to a lot of make-up sex, and well we were very young.. once we forgot the condom and I got pregnant, I was 16. I got an abortion and please if you got anything hurtful to say about that keep it to yourself, it was very difficult for the both of us. We couldn’t go back to the relationship we had. so we distanced each other. I traveled to Sweden and stayed with my mom’s friend who happened to have a gorgeous 24 year old son. He became a very good friend of mine, I told him about my ex (we were on a break at the time) and the abortion. he helped a lot, he had just lost his father in an accident so i was there for him to. one night he took me to his boat, we just laid there watched the stars and smoke cigarettes. We kissed and it was beautiful. So eventually I came back home and my ex called, he wanted to see me. I told him what had happened and he was very upset he called me a whore and even told me that he’d turn my life into hell. I guess it was the spur of the moment. He called a week later, apologized and begged me to get back together. I felt guilty and muss confess still very in-love with him. So I said yes. Things picked up and we were happy, very happy for a few months. Then it was summer. You know loots of drinking, peer pressure… his friend told him that he had seen me very gooey with some guy at a party. What really happened is that we danced, he picked me up (off the floor) and twirled, and put me down again, he was a neat dancer and that was really cool, so I laughed and he laughed. That was it. Well my dear boyfriend had been told much more than that, he called me a whore yet once more and grabbed the drink in my hand a threw it to the floor. Then it all went very fast, my friends were screaming at his friends, he was calling names to a friend of mine and I was crying and sobbing like a little girl, al last a couple of friends took me home and put me to bed. Then I didn’t heard from my boyfriend, let’s call him Matt, for at least two weeks. It was the summer before college and I had plans on going to Brazil for a year, Matt and I had talked about it and we were sure we could make long-distance work, but after what happened it all crumbled down. I spend those two weeks getting drunk with friends and trying to call him only to get voice-mailed. Eventually he called, he asked for forgiveness but didn’t want to get back together since he knew I was going abroad and couldn’t trust me. I lost it. I cried in front of him, begged him to take me back, that I couldn’t live without him and well all that crap needy girls do, something i had never pictured me for… he said ok. I followed him to Boston for college. I abandoned all my plans in order to be with him, all my friends told me I was being stupid and well I knew they were right but I just wanted to be with Matt. I became very insecure, very jealous, very needy. He broke up with me after two months and this time it was me who called him names and told him I had left everything for him. I went to a college party an made out with a guy whose name I don’t even remember, we almost slept together but I was not that drunk. I called a cab and went home. The day after that, the DAY after, Matt shows up and says everything I wanted to hear. He kissed me, he looked at me with puppy eyes and begged for me to forgive all the stupid things that he’d done. He said we could start all over that he trusted me and that he forgave me too. So I didn’t say anything about the kiss and we’ve been together for along time now. Everything is almost perfect, we are gooey and corny. I adore him and I’m pretty sure he does to. But I haven’t told him about that kiss. I’m pretty sure it would be the end of us if he finds out. Actually no one knows, just a friend and now you… Can I live with a secret? I really don’t know, just when I think I forgot all about it, I remember his hands on my waist, his lips on my neck and then I see Matt’s beautiful smile and i die a little bit inside.

(Screen) Name: Dalahassi

confused on what to do next?

My name is Mimi. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4yrs now. We have been thru so much these last couple of yrs. I have been by his side thru his times of lows and highs. We took a yr break in which he fathered another child. At that time it broke my heart but I dealt with the situation and moved on. He showed me that he wanted things to work between us and moved out of state with me 5 months after I left. He was there for me when I had to have surgery to remove pre-cnacerous cells and was/has been supportive. My thing is that I want things to move forward and take things to the next level(engagement, marriage). But I feel as if sometimes hes only here because he doesnt have anywhere else to go. I deal with the attitude, mean comments and no expression of affection from him at all. I love this man and want things to work with him so bad. It has took for me to say Im done and show him that Im at my end for him to now “show” any emotion. I feel like its fake and hes doing it just because he thinks thats what I want. What do I do to make things work and to stop thinking of ending this relationship and tearing the lives of not only me but my daughters who know him as their father since their fathers arent around? Please help?

(Screen) Name: mimi214

Im in love with a man twice my age

Two months ago I broke up with my partner of 4 years for multiple reasons eg: the relationship grew stale, the sex was boring, he tried to change me and hated the way I looked..

Before i left my partner I met a man who was twice my age and instantly connected! We were purely friends and I never cheated on my partner at the time.

I left my partner weeks after meeting this man, we met up for drinks and obviously one thing led to another and it was amazing!! Two months on we are still seeing eachother but Im beginning to think about the future and it is a scary prospect because 1. Im 21 and he is 41 and 2. He works in the Army! Before meeting this man my 2 big no no’s in a relationship were someone who was in the army and someone who was much older but for some reason everything I thought I didnt want is exactly what I now have and he is amazing! Oh forgot to mention he is being deployed back out to Afghan next year..

Need honest opinions!!

(Screen) Name: Bettsy

In 1st Love

Am a boy from India, Am a student….I Love a girl, she is quite pretty. She is one of my Classmate’s Friend’s sister. First we became friends in Facebook. Then we used to talk and chat frequently. She never talked with me properly. Means, She used to give me one reply against ten. But, I never mind, because Am in love with Her. This continues for two months.. And yesterday, She talked with me in a proper way…and also called me like her dearest one. I was very happy. But, to..to..today I came to know that someone else had already proposed her. Though, She didn’t say anything to him…She is happy and confused also. I don’t know what to do now. Where to go? The only thing I know that, I want to see Her happy. Want to see Her smiling, I Love Her smile. No matter what happens, I will never able to stop Loving Her. And guys..if you Love someone Just say it…

(Screen) Name: Diehard

OMG

Hi i need help, i think i like my best friend. The whole story starts when my friend Kevin (who i like)took me to the movies to see The Lucky One (a romantic movie, i guess). He took me because i told him i was having family issues n i was so upset. He was really sweet when we went. A few weeks later my friend Brooke told me she liked him. By the way i didnt tell anyone i liked him. i didnt want anyone to find out so i told Brooke i would set them up to go to this dance at school. i felt so so so stupid when i did. But eventually they broke up. Then me and Kevin got in huge fight(i dont remember about what) then we made up. Now i see him flirting with other girls but the reason him and Brooke broke up was that he was not ready to be in a relationship. i think he is so sweet and nice but sometimes a douche. i love him as friend n i lik him more than that. he has seen me when my life was falling apart and he helped put it back together. i am way to nervous to tell him this because i dont think he feels this way toward me. what wshould i do?

(Screen) Name: in need of fast help

What to do?

my future partner loves me soo much that he can do and has already ddone un imaginable things for me. but the truth is that i love him as much as i love every one else in my life and this is not what i desire. seriously i dont know what to do about this.

(Screen) Name: Irene

Love

So here it goes…I am inlove with two of my really good friends i have known for along time now and they are like tottally two different people but (i shall ccall her R for her first name and T)Ive known R for about 4 years now and T for 3 but R loves me like no one has ever before and so have i but T i love like i cant see my self with out her and I can jsut relate to her more than R…Do you guys have any opinions on what i should do on weather who i should make my self closer to?

(Screen) Name: Confussed

I LOVE HIM THAT WHY I DID THIS

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(Screen) Name: sharonwood

In love with subordinate

Mr. X and I are had previous relationship but we decided to part. He is my subordinate. We parted because he was in love with somebody else ( Ms. L). Eventually Mr X and Ms L parted too. I, on the other hand, got married to Mr. Y. who works abroad. He is always away all year round. Since Mr. X and I are in one company, and we see each other every day, my feeling for him grew more and more each day. I may have been married but I still love Mr. X. Now, Mr X got involved by Ms E whom also is an office mate. Every time I hear about them, my heart is aching. It really hurts me seeing them together. I am the boss of Mr X. Should I ask him to just resign for the goodness of both of us. I cant move on while we we are seeing each other every day. Or should I resign? IU am married but I dont love my husband as much as I love my subordinate. Please help

(Screen) Name: seafire81