Badly love with one girl

hii..This is shubham. i am here to confess and want to sort out my problem.i live in bhagalpur,india .IN mid december 2009 I met a a girl who lives in bangalore and she came bhagalpur in grandfather house where i fall in love. slowly i and she started talking and all..in phone…We used to write i love you..but she never commited thai she loves with me..Days goes on and i went outside for further studies and she also become busy..and now she becomes so busy that she wanna dont talk to me…we were not met till now after 2009 i become very frustrated…and i could not forget also though i wanna to forget het…because is hampering my studies ..but i always feel that someday she will come .i dont know what to do..i need a solution…

(Screen) Name: Shubham

im in strong like of a guy and im married

So ive been married 7 years to a good man who i love. We have tons of fun together but sexually im not feeling him as i should. We have our i cant stand you times then right back to i love you. But a year ago i met a guy who i am attracted to that i used to work with. Its bad, i think about him often and the things i wanna do i know i cant. I hang out time to time (bad idea). But really liking and lusting right now. He feels the same but im married. I know if i keep up something will happen that shouldnt but i want it to. Sexually the attraction is like whoa and we have fun together. How do i make myself stop because ive tried and its extremly hard.

(Screen) Name: kokoa7

trouble

I’m 13 and my step-brother is 16 our parents aren’t married or engaged. They are just dating. Me and my step-brother have been sexually involved with each other for almost a year and i’m starting to fall for him i don’t know how he feels but it’s killing me. i don’t know what i should do end everything or keep on going and tell him how i feel or keep it to myself. I really think i love him. i been in a lot of relationships but i never felt anything like this for the other guys… i really love him.

(Screen) Name: kitten5897

Given opinions without thinking.

I have a very close knit group of friends.We are together from the very school days and they have been the closest to my heart all this time. Lately I had developed a very bad habit of forming opinions about people without judging him/her properly.Two of my friends had gone in to a relationship lately.one of them is with a guy whose 10 years senior to her and doesnt have a good job. Another one of my friends is with a guy whose younger to her and is not at par with her in terms of career.He was preparing for a competetive exam.I had talked a lot behind their backs and had sneered at their choices. The fact that the guys were not into good jobs and not that focussed in life irked me.I even went into the length saying that one of their relationships wont last long as the guy would take a lot of time to settle down.However I had also adviced my second friend to motivate her bf to concentrate on his career.I was genuinely concerned about her and wanted the best for her.I know her family and her father would only approve of a guy whose better than her in all terms.
Offlate I met with the two of them.One of them is a gem of a guy.He is a very nice person and loves my friend dearly.Another one got a good score in his competetive exam. I just feel miserable right now. i shouldnt have formed just strong opinions about them so fast.
My bf and I work in an MNC. Recently he cleared exam of a company which is better than the present one having a double pay package. I am also scared of the fact that maybe he wont get the opportunity to join the company because I had bitched about other people’s bfs.This is the dream job for him and he had been slogging on for the past 4 years for a job like this.I feel right now that I have wasted all his chances of getting through the job.I dont want him to be punished for an idiot like me.
Its very common for all human beings to compare and trying to keep oneself in a higher position. Every body nowadays is competetive and wants the best for oneself. I am no different. But i feel utterly miserable that I had said these things about my close friends.God has brought me down to earth and showed me the humble path.I am sorry my dear friends, I didnt want to say those horrible things about the people u love.I want to take back all my mockery, sneers and lurid comments.I had always wanted the best for you two and recently when i heard about your partners I had thought that maybe you two deserve a lot better. I had forgotten completely that love is all about feeling and commitment.Its not about a high end career and a fat pay package.Please forgive me for being such a manipulative and calculative bitch.

(Screen) Name: phoebe

Friend zone ….

I’m a Netizen … and I’m always online 24/7. Then, one night, My friend dare me to gain 300 friends only from Egypt in just one day. I totally agreed to her and I’d started searching friends from Egypt. Until I add a guy who caused so much pain on me.
It’s my habit to check my fb and email account after going to school. Then, I just saw in my inbox that he messaged me (I can’t say his name) he just say “hi, where are you from?” something like that, then I saw him online so, I replied him, answering his questions and we continued chatting for about how many months. But it comes the time that I just found myself that I’m falling inlove with him. One night, while we are chatting, he asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him “NBSB” or No Boyfriend Since Birth, but I have a deep crush on someone. He asked me who’s that lucky guy and I just answered, “the one whom I’m talking right now”. He was surprised with my answer but I surprised more when he said “I also had a feelings for you” (I don’t know what would I feel that night whether I will be happy or will be hurt caused I just found out that he had a girlfriend, and what’s worst? His girlfriend was an “ITGirl” or the one who is good at all aspects of life. I’m not that type of a girl who got envy with any other pretty girl I see but she made me very envious and jealous because she had everything eventhough the dream guy of mine.) after that, I’m trying to avoid him because I don’t want to destroy their relationship and I don’t want to be their reason of breaking-up. But I can’t avoid him because It’s not that easy … So when we chatted again, I told him if we can be Best Friends because he’s only the one who always help me if I have a problem and I just do the same to him.. He totally agreed and so, we became Best friends that day but not until now ..

It’s just very hard to accept that your’e just in a FRIENDZONE …

(Screen) Name: aishiteruyoomar

Im inlove !

My friends call me Sha2x, im first year college and i met this guy in our school! he is my classmate! first i didn’t like him! its just like he is so much arrogant but later on i see his another side of attitude. He is caring, and talented.But i found out he lives together with a gay. But my feeling for him doesn’t fade. 2 days before my birthday when i decided to get a sign from God, and that sign is “if he can go together with us for a little bonding i will accept who is really him, accept all his past and show him what is really love.” And it was my birthday, im so glad that he came. Even though it’s not easy that we are together but i always remind myself that i will always understand him and that’s a promise ! Also i never want to expect that he will love me also the way i love him, all i want is to prove that im always here to love him, and make him feel so special!

(Screen) Name: esha

I tried but it didn’t worked!

I had my relationship for almost 3 years and suddenly, it was broke that made us to separate our ways. The saddest part of the ending of our relationship is I’m a gay, she knew that and i told her about my sexuality. I tried to save our relationship because to be honest, I love her, I love her kindness, I love her understandable, I love her as my girl but I cant lie to her and to my self because I love her as a friend and a little sister. I knew, I am not a good man for her, I’m guilty for what happened and until now she loves me and still texting and message me. I just wanted to be honest to her. I am not the right person, a real man for her. Do I need to working out this relationship or not? I hope you can help me to have a good decisions in terms of my problem.

(Screen) Name: Marky

Always In Between

My feelings are unstable.Last june 2011, I’ve met #1 and #2 (in different situations). #1 was the first one unto which i felt LOVE. He was good, funny, handsome , I love him and I can feel his love for me too. Then, there came a time that my family’s status went down, and so I met #2. At first, he was just plainly “my friend with benefits”. Then, it came to the point that he was so good to me and kind and loving and caring and i did learn to love him. Even though i have this feeling, i didn’t dare to confess it to him because, at first, I barely knew that he was married and I still have love for #1. As time goes by, my relationship with #1 was doing great and so as my friendship with #2. There came to the point that #1 impregnated me. I wasn’t ready for the situation so i decided to have abortion. I know it was the biggest sin I’ve committed and up to now, I’am kneeling down to our most loving Father for forgiveness. #1 and I didn’t know how to pay our hospital bills since we kept everything secret to our family. So I asked #2 to help me in a way that others wouldn’t know in order to settle with everything, and so he did. He gave me the cash and left. On my 4th night at the hospital, I did not expect #2 came rushing at the door. I’ve seen tears on the sides of his eyes. The sight of his eyes scared me out of my wits. He looked for my bag and took the money with him. And that night, #2 confessed to #1 everything about us. On that night, my affair with #1 was over. It was very painful. I didn’t know what to do,what to say and what to feel. Everything began to swim before my eyes. #1 leave me in the lurch. Even though we’ve came to that worst situation, #2 was still willing to help me, accept me and forgive me. And because of that, I felt his love and care. Nowadays, we are enjoying one’s company and in every sunrise and dawn that we are together my love for him grew stronger and deeper.Even though he makes me feel that he loves me, I still have this feeling of doubts. I don’t know if I should believe on whatever he says, since he and his wife are still okay. And he frankly told me yesternight that we should always keep our relationship secret to the public. I felt anxious. So much for my likeness to do what is right, I can’t leave him since my emotional attachment with him is so intense. I don’t know what to do with my feelings. I’am so confused in everything he does.HELP ME PLEASE !

(Screen) Name: The Mistress

the wall

so here’s the deal, i have a boyfriend we’ve been together for almost 3 years in june so it’s been 2 1/2 years. It’s not that i don’t love him but i need someone to talk to about his. But in 2007 i met this guy we’ll say his name was kc. we’d fight a lot, sometime nothing major it would be over something like hiding his possessions. He never really knew why i did it, sometimes to get his attention other times because i just wanted to have a little fun. it wasn’t till we had a big fight that i began to realize that i loved him. im a stubborn person most of the time i dont like to admit things. after about 4 years i started talking to him again, knowing hes married. we’ve said some things but there’s nobody like him. as i said it’s not like i don’t love who im with his names ken, i love him with everything in me. but i sometimes don’t know where or what i should do. i can very firmly about kc even though we have not been together since sept.2007 that the love i thought would go away hasn’t i can’t make him choose, it wouldn’t be fair but he also cant make me. it’s like something that haunts you because you’ve done the wrong thing well, he haunts my dreams, when i dream i have dreams about him, about other people too. i think one of my biggest fears why i dont say everything that i want to like how i didnt want to leave or i dont always say what’s on my mind is because of how others will precieve it. i feel like no matter what i do i cant win.

(Screen) Name: junks1988