News for the ‘Friend Secrets’ Category

Friend? Or loved one?

So I’ve been at this school for about two years. I met my best friend there, we are just the bestest friends ever! We do everything together; go to the park, sleepovers, math tests etc. But recently I’ve been having feelings for my friends older sibling. I don’t know whether that’s right or wrong, but I know that if my friend finds out, our friendship is OVER. This isn’t just some crush, I truley love him. He’s not the most handsome guy in the world but i love him for who he is, not what he looks like. I know where to find him at lunch. I make an excuse to go there just so I can see him. We talk, have a laugh, stuff like that. But he has NO idea about the pain behind my smile. Every day I think about him, knowing that I can never tell anyone. He doesn’t know that I love him, but I just want to tell him and get it over with, but I’m afraid of how he’ll react. You know, it would be great if he loved me too, but even if he’s not interested in my like that, I still don’t want to lose him as a friend. Also I’m under a lot of pressure. Two guys recently asked me out and I told them that I loved someone else, and hey never leave me alone now. I walk in to the room and straight away they’re asking me “Who is he?Tell me, tell me, tell me!” I don’t know what to do. PLESE HELP!!!

(Screen) Name: Love-sick97

Edited: April 12th, 2011

i love my best friend

ok i i liked thiz guy and after a while we became bestfriendz we alwayz hanging out together and everything but he haz a gf that he hatez and he promised me and swear he would break up with her but he didnt and he broke my heart should i talk to him or not?

(Screen) Name: whataidiot9

Edited: December 13th, 2010

regret

My best friend and I have had threesomes, now and then, with her boyfriend. Just recently he put the moves on me and tried to kiss me knowing that I was drunk & feeling depressed. Although, that is NOT an excuse for me because I know I had full responsibility in this, it still remains a fact of my emotions and physical condition. His girlfriend was no where near us. He tried kissing me again and I just kept pushing him back and kept telling him to stop but he kept being persistent and before I knew it I was kissing him back. It did not stop there and honestly the rest was a bit blurry but I remember there was some penetration and I just remember coming to my senses and stopping him before it went any further but I felt that it was too late. I’ve been feeling so bad and I’m not sure if I should tell her what happened or not. I’ve heard that you shouldn’t tell just relieve your guiltness and that you should tell them when they question you. Well she did question me two days after but I was unable to tell her the truth at the time because she was about to go out with him and his family and most importantly I wanted to tell her in person. Today I had a chance to see her in person and us two only because she was helping me out with some personal problems. I thought we had the whole day together and before I knew it should told me she had to leave to work. Again I felt that it was not a good moment again to tell her. I feel like there is never going to be a good moment to tell her and the more time passes by I feel that I will feel less inclined to her. I am so scared to lose her friendship because I love her dearly she means everything to me. What should I do?

(Screen) Name: Sad Sally

Edited: July 25th, 2010

Hatred Lead to the Great Friendship of my Life

An introvert & short tempered person by nature, always believed in having quality friends around me rather than quantity….When i was in skool i was a book freak & very protective about my books.. i had a neighbor who lived opposite to my building who studied in my same school in da same grade but in different classes..she was juzz opposite to wat i was ..cud be clearly seen on her face dat she liked to enjoy her life..n studies were burdened on her … With my this impression about her .. i neva liked her .. infact if she asked me for my notes, i would bluntly say a NO…( i was mean )..She envied me as her mother was always comparine me to her as i was on time n punctual… So Her feeling of hatred towards me was mutual…But then one final dat during My 9th Class , we have class switches..n Wen i open the door to my new class i saw HER .. n i was like oh great !!!!!!!!!!!
But strangley we got along well.. n gradually we started sharing every thing about our lifes,, the funny things , the serious problems , gossiping …everythin ,.. n as time passed ..we became best friends… at a stage in my life i had to go through the toughest thing and leave the country .. and she was there beside me .. helpin me guiding me .. make me understand the toughest thing in da most simple way she cud … and its been 5 yrs and i come back again to the same country and its changed totally…i had to take a new start & the only person who stood by me den .. was her … she helped me through all my problems be it emotionally or financially or anythin … she was juzz there … i can say one thing about her for sure today … Shes the only one whom i can confide to without any hesitation and trust blindly….Shes a person with a very pure heart and who is honest not only to people but to herself ..Shes one of the best friend anyone could eva have, coz she will neva guide you to the wrong things… Thank You ..Miss Nadia Iqbal for being the True friend in my life .. Love you babes

(Screen) Name: ASHU

Edited: April 18th, 2010

oh no…he read it

of all crazy things to happen…I wrote a blog about my best friend who is married, and guess what….the little ass read it! Long story short I literally had to wrestle him to try to stop him, and he still read it! He promised me his wife will never know…but it didnt solve the problem its only made it worse now…because he knows exactly how i feel! I didnt want him to know because i had really hoped to carry on as normal. But now thats hard to do. I just wish he would love me back….but thats never gonna happen, at least not in the way i want it to. He will never leave his wife…and I would be horrible to say i wish he would, because I love his wife to peices, and obviously so does he. Yet im still madly deeply head over heels in love with him and its pathetic! Its hurting my heart in a way I never thought it could, and im lost in what to do…only because the only choice is the obvious…back off and go away, it could only go badly. But i dont want to, i want to be closer…way closer…ok so i want to be how would you put it….skin on skin…what do i do!!! I cant keep going crazy!!!!!

(Screen) Name: jayded

This post was submitted by jayded.

Edited: April 16th, 2010

I have a boyfriend but i’m falling for my best friend

I have a boyfriend for more that 4 years. Everything seemed fine until my friend and I became close. We talk a lot, spend much time toghether, we go out. I feel that i’m becoming attracted to my friend, and the love for my boyfriend is fading. I’m not sure if i love him or i’m just used being with him. I’m more confused because my friend seems to have some feelings for me too. I don’t know what he really feels for me. I know I care about him a lot, but is it love? where is the line between frienship and love? i really wanna figure out what i feel, because i wanna be honest to myself and to the persons that care about me. I don’t want to hurt them.

(Screen) Name: Hikari

Edited: February 7th, 2010

Shouldn’t happen…

I love this guy, he says he loves me back. He is 21 I am 15. He also has a girlfriend. It shouldn’t happen but I want it to soo bad.

(Screen) Name: Falloutgirl

Edited: February 4th, 2010

What To Do?? Plz Reply Quickly

I jus confessed to my boyfriend after a year that while we were broken up i had sex with someone else. He asked me about it once and i lied to him i felt so bad but then i jus went ahead and told the truth now he is really mad for me lying and what he calls “trying to move on from him too fast.” we had been together for a couple of months and had been broken up for 2 months, so i went out with my bestfriend once we broke up and had sex with him i guess thats what made him so mad now he’s asking me what i think he should do??? I know i was wrong for lying but we were broken up so i dont see why he is so mad for me doing what i did. Was I? And What would you do if you were him??

(Screen) Name: Advice_wife

Edited: February 3rd, 2010

Forbiden

I am 31 years, married twice and 4 boys. I have never been in real love. 5 years ago I fall for my brother in law that I never met before and end up having sex with him. But, he has a best friend that I met before I move with my brother in law. I have feeling for the friend and it look like it is growing everyday. I am still living with my brother in law and we have a son toghether. I know it sound crazy but I am not in love with him althought he said that he loves me.
My concern now is that, I am so confused and I don’t know what to do.
please help!

(Screen) Name: Princess

Edited: February 3rd, 2010

Best friend

I’m in love with my best friend even though he has I girlfriend I want him to be mine I feel guilty because his girlfriend is my friend but im also in love with him and i recently met my best friends friend and im starting to fall for him to and i love them both and they both have feelings for me but in the end i know someone will get hurt. . . badly

(Screen) Name: lost here

Edited: January 23rd, 2010