infidelity with a friends wife

OMG! I cannot believe this is happening. I am married and we have a couple also married that we spen a lot of time with. Recently and out of the blue I have found out that my bubbies wife has been very attracted to me for a long time. There were mild flirtations, and one night I told her that she was driving me wild!!!!! She said that she has been feeling the same way for a very long time. The sexual tension is almost unbearable. We hugged and she turned away but pressed against me first. I could not hept to hide my very prevalent excitement. She pushed very hard against me. I then while holding her ran my hands over her breasts and between her legs. When I touched her between her legs she nearly melted to the floor. that’s it so far. What should we do????OMG

(Screen) Name: dutchmann

I eloped with an Arab.

I’m a white Christian woman who met a man from the Middle East online. First we communicated through emails, then on the phone and finally we met in person. . The thing is, we fell in love before meeting in person the first time. He is the kindest, smartest, funniest guy I have ever been with and I love him.
When we met in person, it was like we just knew we were meant for each other. Yes I’m Christian and he is Muslim. We had talked about some of the big issues that often come up with interfaith couples and I became extremely comfortable with him. He asked me to marry him, I said yes, and about 5 weeks later we got married.
The problem is one that is also typical for interfaith couples. My family, parents in particular, do not approve at all. Unfortunately , my financial situation is one in which I have to live with them with my youngest child for the time being. I am 34 years old and capable of deciding who the right man is for me.
They know I am seeing him. But they don’t know I eloped with him. I thought it would be easy to keep this a secret until I was ready to reveal it, but I find that it really isn’t.
I am not ashamed of him and me, in fact I want the world to know about us. But I do have this fear that if I do say something now, things could go bad for me. But I needed to get this off my chest.. I hate the judgements that I know will be coming with the confession, and the guilt trips laid at my feet. But part of me is dying to just get it over with and out of the way.

(Screen) Name: anharri1

who do you <3 ?

There are many different kinds of love. There’s love at first sight when you just know hes the one just by a glance there’s also the cupids aro where you just cant help your self but to just lose control when your with them, there’s also diatic partner- ship love which is the most honest level that you can get to. Last and the most painful the unrecruited love it’s like they know who you are and leave you clues thinking that they love you but then just to find out he has a girlfriend and was just using you for a $1.25 to buy a drink out of the alacart lunch line. And you can’t say no cause you fell like if you say no he will hate you and all you want to do is make him happy so he will reconsider going out with you even when you know he’s out of your league. Hi my name is i cant tell you but i go to DMMS and i am the love expert just in case your wondering… It started out with a guy named kris. His eyes were beautiful and i was new at school so i didnt have a clue who anyone was and at first he was kinda a jerk until i knew him then i fell in love. But honestely no one knows what love really is. Some think its about money,kissing,and alot of people just think its about sex. Well i just went by personality i mean call me old fashion but thats how i am non like other tweens who just go buy if the guy is a good kisser or if hes so desprate that he will go out with you anyway back to the story… so right when i thought he was the one he didnt talk to me and then he just started to date the cutest girl in school but personaly i dont think shes that pretty but then he changed and then just using me and my friends for money and now he doesnt talk to me

(Screen) Name: hebr0kema<3

cheating

I met this guy three years ago he kept asking me out and I would always say if I was not married i’d be all over you when I found out my spouse was cheating I decided to give in in the the next time he approached me and did i mess up, i fell and fell hard, I never admited this to him after about four dates I stop seeing him and each time he would ask me out I would say no but my Heart and body screamed yes yes please do me. The last time I spoke with him they was happy as they were that was almost three years ago. We live in the same town and work in the same town a few miles away. We are both business owners in a ajoining town so naturally we cross path coming and going to work daily. One night on my way home a vehichle was trailing me too close for about 2 miles and then went around me and cut in front of me very sharpley it was a uncomfortable thing for me and I was going to approach him about it after I realized it was him but did not have a chance to. Since then we have met up at a resteraunt and they spoke nicely. but I can not get pass the road rage. I know we can never have a relationship but there is a attitute in the air that needs resolution I do not want to be the instulator of this descussion. I could never leave my husband even though the relationship is hollow almost without life i,m content and I belief they are in a relationship as well but there is so much tension when we see one another it is unconfortable on Christmas Eve they passed me and my husband outside of a local restruant and I said Merry Christmas and they said Merry Christmas Baby what a extreme from road rage to Merry Christmas Baby. What do you do

(Screen) Name: max

oh no…he read it

of all crazy things to happen…I wrote a blog about my best friend who is married, and guess what….the little ass read it! Long story short I literally had to wrestle him to try to stop him, and he still read it! He promised me his wife will never know…but it didnt solve the problem its only made it worse now…because he knows exactly how i feel! I didnt want him to know because i had really hoped to carry on as normal. But now thats hard to do. I just wish he would love me back….but thats never gonna happen, at least not in the way i want it to. He will never leave his wife…and I would be horrible to say i wish he would, because I love his wife to peices, and obviously so does he. Yet im still madly deeply head over heels in love with him and its pathetic! Its hurting my heart in a way I never thought it could, and im lost in what to do…only because the only choice is the obvious…back off and go away, it could only go badly. But i dont want to, i want to be closer…way closer…ok so i want to be how would you put it….skin on skin…what do i do!!! I cant keep going crazy!!!!!

(Screen) Name: jayded

Relationships…

Over the summer I was in a relationship with a previous good friend. Things ended poorly and we dont speak. I still think i am in love with him 6 months later. I am now considering a new relationship with my closest guy friend. He is very into me but I am somewhat unsure of him. what should i do?

(Screen) Name: achotshalom

In love with two people

I have been in a long, on again- off again relationship with my partner for over ten years now. We have a child together no less. However, my partner has mistreated me several times over the years, sometimes stepping into the realms of abuse. I have always loved him but I have been feeling every time we have broken up and gotten back together that my heart has been becoming more and more guarded with him. Like I can never completely love him like I did. I feel guilty for this but at the same time I feel it neccesary because I really don’t feel like I can handle being hurt by him much more. Still, we are engaged and I am trying to be as loving with him as my heart will allow.
My problem is I have always felt a connection with a good friend of mine. We have been friends for 3 years. About a month ago, when I was feeling particularly sad and having a moment where I was considering suicide, I confessed my feelings to this friend. In the 3 years I have known him he has always been there for me and the sound of his voice alone warms my spirits. The friend was shocked but confessed he has always felt something toward me as well. Since then our feelings for each other have only deepened.
Another complication to add to this story is the friend is married himself for over 10 years and has children. Neither of us know what to do about our feelings. We want to be there for each other but are afraid of destroying the lives we have. I don’t want to break my fiance’s heart and he doesn’t want to break up his family. We haven’t acted physically on these feelings yet though we both feel we would like to.
I can’t imagine my life without either of them in it. I never knew life could be so complicated.

I have been in a long, on again- off again relationship with my partner for over ten years now. We have a child together no less. However, my partner has mistreated me several times over the years, sometimes stepping into the realms of abuse. I have always loved him but I have been feeling every time we have broken up and gotten back together that my heart has been becoming more and more guarded with him. Like I can never completely love him like I did. I feel guilty for this but at the same time I feel it neccesary because I really don’t feel like I can handle being hurt by him much more. Still, we are engaged and I am trying to be as loving with him as my heart will allow.

My problem is I have always felt a connection with a good friend of mine. We have been friends for 3 years. About a month ago, when I was feeling particularly sad and having a moment where I was considering suicide, I confessed my feelings to this friend. In the 3 years I have known him he has always been there for me and the sound of his voice alone warms my spirits. The friend was shocked but confessed he has always felt something toward me as well. Since then our feelings for each other have only deepened.

Another complication to add to this story is the friend is married himself for over 10 years and has children. Neither of us know what to do about our feelings. We want to be there for each other but are afraid of destroying the lives we have. I don’t want to break my fiance’s heart and he doesn’t want to break up his family. We haven’t acted physically on these feelings yet though we both feel we would like to.

I can’t imagine my life without either of them in it. I never knew life could be so complicated.