I'm engaged and truly disappointed -any advice would helpful

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[mimz]

Hi.

You sound like such a nice sincere guy. If I was you I would be very cautious and take time before marrying this woman..
I would go to a couples counslor and talk it out.

A woman might not tell you she cheated for fear of loosing you, but now that she's told you you have to deal with your feelings about her or even if she never cheats again you might always feel distrusful and look down on her for being promiscuos in the past.

If in the end it doesn't work out I'm sure you will find someone more like yourself. Is she educated? Is she very different from you in other ways. Do you feel she would be a good mom and a good wife. You've worked hard in your young life you don't want to marry someone have a child and then get divorced. It's so common lately.

When you speak about her you describe her as though she is confused and all over the place. Is she like this in other areas besides communicating with you about her sex life? Do you think she is stable?

Dont let your past broken engagement be the reason you stay with this woman. Ideallly you get married once to a woman who is right for you.

Good Luck and if you have the time please see if you can help me with my question/post entitled " He breaks up with me...."

Take Care,

Mimz

[allvira]

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