Great Boyfriend, why so sad???

[sarahcm]

I am twenty years old and having been dating my guy for about two and a half months now. He is wonderful, romantic, sweet and always there for me. However, lately I've been feeling very sad. He is always showering me with "I love you," "You're beautiful," etc. I used to tell him the same back all the time, but suddenly I'm feeling reluctant to say "I love you." I don't feel that intense spark or butterflies anymore and this scares me. He's near perfect and I can't feel anything or get in the mood! I'm scared that we need to break up. I just feel so numb suddenly, and sad, and like I'm always wanting to be alone. I don't know what to do because he is such a great guy and a week ago I was undoubtedly head over heels for him. What is wrong with me???


Please help!

Sarahcm.

[gsabas]

You should feel happy when your guy praises you & if you are not satisfied with this then i think you need some counseling coz he is a sweet guy as you said.

[sweetromance2]

It sounds like you may be suffering from symptoms of depression. Has something stressful happened in your life recently? The stress could come from physical or emotional causes. If you don't feel better again soon, I would definately talk to a counselor.

[ricky028]

Just hang on and chill. Give yourself some time and try to trace out the root cause of the problem. May be you are expecting too much from your boyfriend or you have a pre exiting image of your boyfriend in your mind. So don’t bother and follow your heart.

[lovelust]

You should be thankful because you have him. Just be patient for now maybe because you're just confused or there is something that is stressing you. You should identify what is the cause so that you know what to do or you can visit a counselor, it's really a big help.

If you use the words i love you, you better be sure if the feeling is true because sometimes we just need to say the word just to be sweet..

I don't use the words i love you if I really don't feel saying it because it is considered sacred. Just enjoy yourself being with him and I think you should tell him about your feelings so that you can work things out.

[priseah]

i understand your situation
i've been there also.
i have a BF who is almost perfect but i decided to break up with him.
because...i don't want to be unfair.you know that..
He is Happy to be with me while i am not.. he always tell me how much he loves me but i just can't say i love you back..
it is hard to hurt someone. but i have no choice . i need to hurt him now that to make our situation more complicated..

my advice to you is just think very well about your situation
ask your self if you're really inlove with this man..

have a time to be alone first.. (ask him a little space..it is better that when you are in thinking and decideng phase you and this guy have no communication)

ask for Lord's guidance.
good luck

[BigHeart]

This is a human element - we don't value what's free and easily obtainable. There's a reason why diamonds have more value than wood. When somebody constantly says, "I love you", that can actually be a sign of insecurity - who knows? Actually, one time when I was dating this new guy and wasn't sure of him, but saw the potential, I called a pro psychic over at Most Gifted Psychics (mostgiftedpsychics.com). Their advice was spot-on, and helped me grow closer to my guy.

[chickprincess]

Sometimes a person does that if he/she is THAT happy with the relationship. He/She keeps on telling you that he loves you all the time! And if you don't answer back, he'll get emotional and all. Are you his first girlfriend, if so, that's normal. It just shows that he's into you and happy being with you. But remember that you don't have to answer back all the time. Just say the 3 magic words if you feel like saying it. Not because you need to say it.