confused ...........plz help me

[vagoel83]

Hi
i am in a college doing pg,i love a girl she is in my class .she sits wid me ,she remains with me in the college from 9 to 6 ,we use to go on date,watch movie ,i told her about my feeling she intially refused then she said that she luv me then she said she does not love me. she has has a boy friend but he has gone to some other country.now when her bf was coming ,she told me 3-4 days earlier on phne that she does not love me .she does not talk to me when his bf was there .but she call me nxt day when his bf gone back to the other country .Now i feel really bad . i reaally luv her and it is difficult to forget her what should ido .pl z help me

[ashtan37]

It looks like she is not really serious about getting together with you. Why not just ask her straight away?

[ricky028]

As you said she already has a boy friend, she might be a little confused too. I think she needs some time to think on it. You should try to talk to her openly on this issue. Don’t enforce your feelings rather try to know what is in her mind.

[chickprincess]

In my opinion, she's just comfortable being with you. You said that she has a boyfriend who lives in another country? Of course she'll feel that need of love and comfort and she sees that in you. How can you say that you love someone and the next day you don't to the one you want to get serious with, right? Just don't expect too much.