by joi2starr » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:50 am
I found out that my husband was communicating with a co-worker about our personal issues. I listened to his voice mail and a woman was on there asking if she was going to see him that day cause she missed him. To make a long storyshort, my husband of 12 yrs admitted that they kissed. I was stunned because he is a great friend, as well as a husband and we communicate pretty good. A few months later when i listened to his phone again there was a female voice on his voice mail again and it wasn't work related. I was livid. Will he cheat? Am I wrong when I say that married men shouldn't have new female friends unless they are mutual? I even asked him if he wanted to have a new pact between us that we can accept calls from the opposite sex, he was totally against it;then why is he doing it? Do you think he has had sex with one of these woman?