attend.
I started to have feelings for her, and I share this with friends from this
organization who than told her I liked her without me knowing.
Weeks Later There was an event held Where I asked her to be my girlfriend
on a Sunday, She said no. A day later or two, She Contacts me Via-Messenger
And says to me That she thought about it and said Yes to wanting to be my GF.
We made it official on the 28 of April the day we see each other again.
I am now 1 Year, 4 Months. (3 more days n i'll be 1yr 5Months)
And I am so in love with her, I'll do anything for her.
And willing to spend the rest of my life with her.
She lives about 1hr away from me.
I see her mainly Saturday, Sunday and the Occasionaly 1 day of the week.
(so you could say its a long distances relationship)
But had problems during the course of our relationship.
All our problems have being similiar and related to guys.
A little history of our problems.
We all go to the same Organization were we see each other.
(First Problem is This guy we'll called him Guy #1,
Who is her friend and mine. He started to be very
close to my girlfriend, till later my gf tells me
He asked a kiss from her and she said she declined
I got the attention of Guy #1 and told him I saw
you as my friend and i don't ever want you near my
gf. I also told my gf to ignore this guy she agreed
Second Problem is this Guy#2 was my friend and hers.
He started to be very close to my gf. And says
that he wants to dance with her, And wants to go
out on a date with her. I am angred by this, told
the guy to stop contacting her. I told my Gf to
ignore this guy and says will do as I ask. But only
to find time and time again she has contact with him
on her cell phone And Messenger. I am sad and angry
by this that I hacked the Guy#2's email just for
him to stop contacting her. He than makes a new
email and adds my gf, she adds him after i told
her not to. My girlfriend tells me that he said,
Guy#2 don't care what I think and will want her to be
her friend. I don't want to lose my girlfriend
so i kinda wanted to try to accept him as her friend,
so I kept on bringing how i don't want guy#2 as your friend
on our course of relationship even now its still an issue.
As she goes to the same college as him, and tells me
that she's friends with him and helps her around school.
Knowing that i don't like him at all.
Our third Problem occurred not so long ago where Guy#3
Used to one of my best friends. He started to become
Very very close to my girlfriend that they started to
call each other brother and sister. I wasn't bothered,
As he is my best friend and she's my gf. After a while
I started to become jealous if you will. After seeing
how much he really liked my girlfriend to the point
where her name was on her "blog" "Messenger name"
And little things like that. My girlfriend later tells
me hesitating whether or not to tell me. I just said
If you want to. So she tells me that He asked a kiss from her
accidentally.
So my gf said "oh okay" My gf tells him out
of curiosity "Who was the kiss to anyway?"
Guy#3 says: it is for you.
My GF: But we are brother and sister.
Guy#3 says: Yes but not from blood. (implying its okay
since there not really brother and sister.)
My GF: I have a boyfriend and you know that.
Guy#3 Says: Yes I know.
I told her to stop contact with him
And decided to talk to him in person. (since
he used to be my best friend try to see really
why he said that to her)
When we did saw him my gf wanted to talk to him
first than us together is said okay.
After a bit she told me to come and started to
say it was a mis understanding even before
i started to talk to him after a bit. I told
him if he meant it. he said no. But I could tell
right away he was lying. After that i still told
my gf to stay away from him.)
Another incident is where at an apartment
both of our friends were at;
Decided to play the old classic game spin the bottle.
It started from just truth to dare, to serious dares.
It was obvisoly to me that well I'am only gonna do
stuff with my gf which i loved. But my gf
was showing signs that she was willing to kiss other guys.
Long story short after this i told her why she
felt like this.
She says "I thought you wouldn't mind
a kiss is just a kiss"
I said I won't allow this, if that's your mind set i can't be with you.
She says "Okay won't happend again"
Little things like this make me fell in secure of her.
Another one was where we had a fight, where
my gf thought I was gonna break up with her.
She told our problems to this guy#4.
This guy#4 tells her that he likes
her and wants her to give him a chance knowing
that i'am her boyfriend.
And after we make-up she told me this dilemma
and is still good friends with this guy.
Who wanted to steal her from me if you will.
My gf told me this Guy#5 in college wrote a song for her.
My gf says she dodges this guy ever since he told her that.
Later she tells me this guy is obsessed with her,
That when he saw a picture of Mygf and Me, Guy#5 told
her to take it down. My gf did take it down
cause she was scared of him.
Also when Guy#5 saw Guy#2 talking to him Guy#5 pushed him.
(Thats how i found how she still talks to Guy#2 and
MyGF, Guy#5, and Guy#2 all go to the same college)
Thats maily our problem at the moment.
Right now all of em are her friends still.
Guy#1 occasionally see her and greet each other.
Guy#2 When I'am around he don't really get close to her
cause i don't let him, But know they do in college that they talk a lot, and that fact
that they sign each other blogs.
Guy#3 still calls her sister, and don't greet her
when im around also cause i don't let him. But know
they still talk a lot.
Guy#4 Was never my friend. That i know
of they are still good friend.
Guy#5 My gf tells me, she won't listen to
him anymore. Says that she don't care about him.
I tried to accept them at least Guy#1,2,3,4 but really the more I try the more I can't
stand em in our lives.
The thing is I told my girlfriend to not contact them
Yet they are friends.
Thinking of how they are friends makes me sad and angry.
I feel as they won a battle and I lost.
I told my gf that, and says "But don't you have me isn't
that better"
I say Yes your right. And she is but still
thinking of how this guys wanted to destroy our
relationship and how they are friends just makes me
fill with sorrow...
The thing is Should I step aside accept them as her friends?
Know they wanted to destroy our relationship.
Should I step up and tell her, I don't want em period.
It either them or me?
I just don't wanted them in our lives.
I truly love my Girlfriend I could be with her till the end of time.
But of course I want to be happy. I want to prevent
This problems as much as possible. Any advice how to go about this Would be very
grateful
Would appreciate any comments towards this.
Thanks You.
