I’m a young lady of 22 with 2 children i work in a pub and i have met this fantastic man hes 20 yrs older than me thou now i dont see it as a problem nor does he but the thing is me and my boyfriend have separated on a temp bases as he has a drug and violence prob now i do love him but i think im better of with out him the thing is he he is violent and would make my life hell if i was to mess him abt but this guy from work im mad for he worships the ground i walk on and with him been older he is mature and better than anyone my age what do i do follow my heart or my head to keep myself and my children safe???

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