If you are a teenager and you think it’s ‘love’, trust me it’s not, it’s just a crush. When you’re young and all these strange new hormones are flooding throughout your body, you start to mistake these intense emotions for ‘real’ feelings. It’s biological. Once you become an fully matured adult and no longer a pubescent, you will understand that healthy relationships come from feelings of mutual trust and respect, not purely from a chemical or physical reaction in your body.
Trust me on this, when you mature into an adult you will mellow out so much and look at the person you thought was ‘the one’ for you and think, ‘What the hell did I see in him/her?’
I really feel for you teens, and I am so glad I don’t have to go through what you are going through.
Stay strong, maintain high values and always make decisions out of respect for yourself and others. Take good care of your body because it is still developing and you don’t want to screw it up when it hasn’t even fully matured yet. God, I wish somebody had emphasised that to me back then.
Peace xo
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