I’m seriously attracted to my girlfriend’s (gf) best friend (bf).


What makes it so difficult is that me and bf see each other a lot, we have a lot similar career goals, we have similar interests, we have a similar level of intelligence, and humour, and living style, and so much more.


Sure me and gf have a lot in common, but there’s more and more that puts me off her each week.


If I knew how bf felt then I might be more willing to do something, but I can’t afford to risk it now and lose both of them and my home!


On top of all that, I now work with bf so I’ll be seeing her even more!