Well let’s see. I’m married for 12 years, we have 2 unbeivable kids together, but we are different. I’m very socially active, like to go out, dance, belong to golf club, play poker, etc…my wife, nada, very home body. Our spark or love like is pretty much gone, we have sex maybe once a month or every other month, and when we do, it’s not very passionate. So i met another lady, 8 years older, she’s divorced, has two kids, super sexy and we have sooooo much incommon. We been intimate 3 times, the first time was pretty much drunk sex, but lasted 3 hours and gave her 5 orgasms, was extremely hot. The other two times were even more hot and passionate. We text each other saying we miss each other and can’t stop thinking of each other, you know things that you do when you first feel you’re falling in love. So my wife found out and she is willing to work it out, but i’m afraid that if we do work it out this cycle could happen again down the road to my wife, and i don’t want to do that to her. I also haven’t talked to the other lady for two weeks and it is killing me to not communicate with her or see her. Our kissing is so intense and passionate, but i tried kissing and making love to my wife the other day, we ended up not making love, but the kissing, on a scale of 1 to 10, my other lover is a 9, with my wife, it was a 3. Any suggestions on what to do? The other lady says she wants all of me or none, i really want all of her too and know that we would be happy, but my kids, divorce, Sounds selfish and i know that it is, but not sure if I’ll be happy the rest of my life with my wife. Who is a great mom and lady, but haven’t been happy for about 4 or 5 years, both emotionally and physically. Someone help. thanks,
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