So I fell in love with my ex’s best friend
So I fell in love with my ex's best friend... while we were still in the relationship and before he became 'the ex'. I was with 'N' for eight miserable months: he was a nasty little man and an abusive alcoholic, who at 42 had become so bitter about life, so resentful of anyone else's happiness, and so filled with hatred that you would have sworn he was an old man who had spent his life in the gutter. Then there was 'P'... well the fact that he looked like the early Hollywood actor Robert Taylor didn’t hurt 🙂 but it was his character and demeanor that really got me. He was intelligent, educated, cultured, and refined. He spoke to me properly, adult-to-adult the way grown ups should speak to one another. He was respectful, and not in a fawning, false way but genuinely respectful - of himself and others. And he was a gentleman… in truth, he was [...]
Confused..
I'm a 16 year old college student and I want to confess something. We were in high school when I first met him. When we were in third year, I had a crush on him. Before the school year ended, he courted me and three days later, he became my first boyfriend. Weeks later, my friend told me that he had other girlfriends. I was hurt and so I broke up with him. When another school year started, he courted me again. I was hesitant at first because I'm afraid that he will hurt me again. HE knew what I felt so he made ways to earn my trust again. And because I loved him, I received him back. After some time, I found out that he really, really love me. He never failed to make me feel special everyday. Even if he is put to shame, he doesn't care as long as he could show to the world [...]
i have no idea
Some time last year i met the guy of my life literally did. He made me feel save, comfortable, loved in weird way, and i was so innocent before i met him. We were suppose to get married but he had to go back home:( and that's when months months later i found out he is married. We talk rarely but even though i should forget about him and know he wasn't meant for me it is literally impossible:((Screen) Name: Nina_07
How may believe will run me down
I am a teenager that has always believe in doing what i felt is right never ask any one for advice and things has always been working out for of. But this time i got it wrong. There is this girl that leave with her aunty in the neighbour-hood, i got attracted to her and she ask me out and i reluctantly accept and we started dating and having sex and now she is pregnant. But i foot know how to report this to my parent, she lied, telling her parent that it a man she meet at the night club that is responsible for pregnancy. But she called and told me that the pregnancy is mine and that she wants' to keep the baby when an ready to be a father, i can come to take the baby (Screen) Name: mathew
“Online Affairs”
..I'm a very optimistic type of woman, friendly, bubbly, has a fighting spirit, but I'm not very direct when it comes to my feelings. I'd say that I've been into such relationships which ends up badly or such a way that i think of it. Years ago, when I was a freshmen student I met this guy, he's way too older than me and I don't care nor love him. It just felt like that time i need some attention and thinks that it would save me from the current complicated situation I'm in. Specially I was suffering a family problem. We've been together for 5 days and he wants something to happen with us sexually. I really don't like and I don't ever like when he touch me. Eventually we did try but i quit and just refuse. He started fooling around and i don't care I just wanna go back to my old life without him. He's [...]
Im in love….
I have known this boy for about 2 year now, and we have became to close to each other, he kept telling me he loved me but it was such sort timing, so I did now want to show my true feelings for him yet, not so long ago we started fading apart and stopped talking and then I found out him and my friend were together, thats when it broke my heart and I then knew I should of told him my true feelings for him earlier. They have recently split up and I poured my heart out about how much feelings I have for him, but he says hes lost all the love he had for me. How can I win his heart back? (Screen) Name: Broken_hearted...
Advice for teenagers…
If you are a teenager and you think it's 'love', trust me it's not, it's just a crush. When you're young and all these strange new hormones are flooding throughout your body, you start to mistake these intense emotions for 'real' feelings. It's biological. Once you become an fully matured adult and no longer a pubescent, you will understand that healthy relationships come from feelings of mutual trust and respect, not purely from a chemical or physical reaction in your body. Trust me on this, when you mature into an adult you will mellow out so much and look at the person you thought was 'the one' for you and think, 'What the hell did I see in him/her?' I really feel for you teens, and I am so glad I don't have to go through what you are going through. Stay strong, maintain high values and always make decisions out of respect for yourself and others. Take good [...]
Living a Lie
I am a young girl. I'm almost 16, and have always had a heart after God. No matter what I've done I will NOT have sex before marriage, but I've already ruined so many of the things that are supposed to wait until marriage. That make it so much more special. I've ruined it terribly. I'm saved and therefor any little wrong doing rips me from the inside out... Well. I recently just got introduced to hormones with my new boyfriend. We love being in eachother's arms,however our relationship started with sexual things. I regret that so very much. When I'm with him I just want to be loved, but then he will get me all hot and bothered forcefully and then I'm begging for a touch. I say no no no. But eventually I give in. He touches, fingers, ect. I go home and talk to my VERY Christian grandmother about who knows what. I've had to lie [...]
I HURT HER 🙁
I am a teenager. Just another guy in this huge wide world. I have a girlfriend whom I love a lot. And she loves me back. But today, something happened that I fear, has diminished her love for me. I used to text her early every morning wishing her a good day. But since the past few days, it was her who had to text me first in order for me to reply. So today, I was waiting for her to hit on me. But, instead, I got the shock of my life when she texted me saying that she is really hurt as I did not text her early since the last couple of days. Now she is really very depressed, and although she says she has forgiven me, I can feel that she is very hurt by this fact. And I also can feel that she has changed a lot. She doesn't reply when I say I [...]
need help
from one year i have a boyfriend.we both love each other a lot.but at the end of this month i realized that i deserve someone who is rich than me,who have a expensive car,house.but when i think about break up with him i just feel very bad and also like i am cheating with him.in future both of us are going to do job and with the salary we can lead a good life but not the best one that i have been expecting from my childhood.i have another problem is that in my family i have three sister including me.i am the youngest one.my other two sisters are married .i lost my father on 2008.now i am 24 and my boyfriend is 27.both of our family meet with each other and they decided to do our marriage on 2014.and my mother and sisters don't have any intention to find out appropriate man for me.they just like to give [...]