Friendship and School and Boyfriend
I have a boyfriend and we are protective over each other and devote one self to each other. we dont go out much without each other and most certainly do not go out with the opposite sex without each other. but i am on study leave and my friends are forcing me to go out with them and they are going out with other guys. i told them i cant come because my boyfriend said no but now they arent talking to me properly and always keep forcing me to come out with them on friday. is it my fault and what shall i do?(Screen) Name: School Leavers Day out
advice?
I dont know what to do about this. ive been falling for my boss who is 33 and i am 20. ive known him for 3 years, and i fall harder each day. he recently gave me his number and we talk constantly. we are so much alike, have so much in common. he hits on me all the time. other employee's notice it and have said something to me about it. the work enviornment we have everyone is very close. does anybody think this is wrong? i mean, it feels so right to me. we are going to the movies tomorrow and i dont kknow if i should make a move, or let him do it. he talks about making a move but then takes it back in a smooth sort of way. im so confused on all this. i just need some feedback/advice, i think it would help alot. anyone who has something ignorant to say about [...]
I eloped with an Arab.
I'm a white Christian woman who met a man from the Middle East online. First we communicated through emails, then on the phone and finally we met in person. . The thing is, we fell in love before meeting in person the first time. He is the kindest, smartest, funniest guy I have ever been with and I love him. When we met in person, it was like we just knew we were meant for each other. Yes I'm Christian and he is Muslim. We had talked about some of the big issues that often come up with interfaith couples and I became extremely comfortable with him. He asked me to marry him, I said yes, and about 5 weeks later we got married. The problem is one that is also typical for interfaith couples. My family, parents in particular, do not approve at all. Unfortunately , my financial situation is one in which I have to live with [...]
I am also a Mistress by Lifestyle Choice
I'm 47, have been married twice, and have had 3 long term affairs with married men, 1 of whom I loved deeply and I doubt I'll ever have that perfect fit again. i have just started an affair with an old work colleague. I only have deep respect for his wife, and never would you hear anything nasty coming from me about her. I am not looking to live with a man again, I don't want to be in a day to day relationship. We only see the best of each other. I like him, He makes me laugh and He's a generous lover. While this sort of relationship is full filling in a lot of ways, there are obvious pitfalls..... as the mistress, you have no freedom in the relationship, you have no power, nor control. You have to move within his timeframes. I wouldn't recommend any woman take this on unless they are confident in themselves, independant [...]
I am also a Mistress by Lifestyle Choice
I'm 47, have been married twice, and have had 3 long term affairs with married men, 1 of whom I loved deeply and I doubt I'll ever have that perfect fit again. i have just started an affair with an old work colleague. I only have deep respect for his wife, and never would you hear anything nasty coming from me about her. I am not looking to live with a man again, I don't want to be in a day to day relationship. We only see the best of each other. I like him, He makes me laugh and He's a generous lover. While this sort of relationship is full filling in a lot of ways, there are obvious pitfalls..... as the mistress, you have no freedom in the relationship, you have no power, nor control. You have to move within his timeframes. I wouldn't recommend any woman take this on unless they are confident in themselves, independant [...]
Dont Know What is lOve
I met a Girl in 9 month before .At initial period we were the good friends. but suddenly a boy came into our life he stolen the best girl from me.Today she hurts me a lot and there is no relationship between us but still i am not able to forget her and i know she hates me a lot and damaged me also from every side but why i am unable to hate her why??????(Screen) Name: Ashish
Selfish love
Hello... I'm 15 years old, I meet this person which I'm currently in love with about 3 years a half now. We become close to each others, everytime one of us have a problem we'll talk about it and give advice, but how can I if theproblem I'm having right now is because of him. I tried confessing to him but everytime I do he already have a girlfriend what's more they're my friends, then just last year he told me that he finally find the person that he'll truly love and it turned out to be my very close friend. I smiled and said to him good luck. Then he asked me to help him, I couldn't refuse. So I did and everytime I helped them and see them being happy my chest always hurts so much like it's going to burst, but seeing him smiling and being happy is enough for me. Right now we're not talking [...]
What is Love?
I'm 17, and don't know what love is. I don't trust that boys want to be with me, every guy I've been with has always felt like they were after one thing. However, there's one guy I always go back to. He was my best friend at one point, but now we've kind of drifted apart. He's extremely funny, but I never fully felt I could trust him, the last time I dated him, he was really sweet, called me loads and kept telling me he loved me, but then he broke up with me by MSN saying something about another girl - who less than a week later was his girlfriend. After he dumped me he then wrote 'p.s. I do love you, you know'. Well, obviously not, and it just reinforces my belief that teens cannot know what love is, and makes me feel kinda worthless. Does love really exist? (Screen) Name: lonely hearts club
Fighting to Accept
I am 20 years old. I lost my parents when I was 7. I have had a few relationships but none come close to the one I shared with my best friend. We began dating after steadily getting closer for a couple years. I was so happy, but spent a lot of my time trying to make sure I didn't do anything wrong. I didn't want to lose him. So whenever something did go wrong, I would be incredibly upset. I still loved him though. Finally the day came when he told me he didn't feel the same anymore. I tried to be sincere and calm but I ended up losing it. I fought feelings for months and I finally I sent him a terribly hurtful message. It made me feel better removing him from my life. I kept thinking about our relationship though. Over time it dawned on me how wrong I was. How much was my fault. [...]
Young love formula
I am a fifteen year old girl. I roam through the hallways of my medium sized school and see an abundance of pregnant girls. My mother had me when she was 16, and my father left her. She was just a hormonal teenage girl, so please, Readers, do not judge her. But, when I turned three, my mother married the most vile person that has ever walked the earth. This man created my two little sisters. But he beat me, and he raped me. My mom only knew he hit me, and she would distract him into hitting her so that I could run away. I had to be homeschooled because of my bruises. My mom was my best friend. When I turned seven, my mommy died. She got really sick, and just left. I can get angry with her, and say that she abandoned me all that I want to, but I could never accuse her of not [...]