Sub Title
 Will
the Wedding come or will your lover make you wait Forever?
Have you been with your lover for a long time and
still have not reached a point where he or she has proposed to you or has
expressed any interest in fully committing to you and starting your life
officially together? Will you ever see your wedding day or will you wait
forever? Read the lists below and see if you will be having that wedding day or
if you will be kept waiting forever.
| You
could be getting Married If
You
and your partner can talk about marriage without having arguments and
fights.
If
your relationship is still new and have been together for only 1-4
years.
You
both are already working towards a goal of making your lives more
stable to arrange wedding and live a married life.
You
both feel prepared to play the role of a wife or husband.
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You
will be waiting forever If
You
and your partner have arguments and fights when the topic of weddings
and marriage come up.
He
or she makes constant excuses of why he/she cannot get married.
You
have been together for over 4 years and have not yet been given any
signs or expressions that your partner wants to be married to you.
You
stay with him/her regardless if you are given any expression that you
will be fully committed to.
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If marriage
is on your mind but is the farthest thing from your partner's mind and you
have been together for a long time, then it is time to get real and have a
serious talk about it. If you think your partner will eventually propose if you
wait long enough, think again! Preparing for marriage both financially,
career-wise and mentally is one thing, but taking forever to get together is
another and if your partner truly wants to be with you, then he or she will not
want to take forever to start their life with you and enter married life. They
can use every excuse in the book, but there is no good enough reason for you to
wait around for the rest of your life.
So, if there
are commitment issues in your relationship, talk to your partner about it and do
not be afraid to tell him/her what it is you really need and want and if they
are not willing to compromise, then perhaps you need to get real and accept the
fact that your relationship is going no where and never will- and then you
should move on
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