I said it, too, ladies. Sure, I can date a man with children!  I have my own children, so it should be fine.  One year later, wounded, sad and weak, I believe it. Never date a man with children.  Despite whatever he says, you will never be the priority.  Even when the kid’s mom is still in the picture and he has his own time without his kids, you will never be the priority, ever. It doesn’t matter if you are sick and desperately need of him, you will NEVER be the priority.  I found this out the hard way.  I believed his bullshit.  He would be there for me, he loves me, wants nothing more than to be with me, you’re the love of my life, I didn’t know love until I met you. BULLSHIT, BULLSHIT, BULLSHIT!  Trust me ladies, he will leave sick as a dog at 11:00 pm, when you need him, because he needs to feed his kid’s guinea pigs, and he will NOT drive back to take care of you. He will go to his place and got to bed. You are probably thinking, oh, well maybe she didn’t go out of her way for him, maybe she didn’t treat him as her priority.  Trust me, I did.  I did everything I could for him, while taking care of my own children and treating them as a priority as well.   I took care of his dry cleaning, took care of his children while his train wreck ex-wife was rehab and he needed to travel for business. I did his laundry, I cooked him dinner, I cooked his kids dinner. I cleaned his house, I lavished him with gifts on his birthday, valentine’s day, Christmas, and just because.  Men with children are selfish.  They cannot balance a relationship with children, like a woman can. I mean no ill will towards everybody’s children.  Your children should be your priority.  I am just saying, when you make it clear in the start of relationship, this is what you need and he says that he can give it to you, don’t believe.  Don’t ever believe him.  Maybe he was on high from the feeling of new love and thought he could be what I needed, I don’t know.  This is just a warning to my fellow females, know what you are dealing with.  If you need to be the priority if your man’s life, don’t date a man with children. Heed my warning, ladies and save yourself some extreme heartache.  Find a man without kids, if this is what you need.  I am not ashamed to say it. This is what I need.  I love hard and need to be loved hard back.  I hope posting this saves someone from some pain.

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