“Serendipity is a propensity for making fortunate discoveries while looking for something unrelated”
I considered my love story as a serendipity love. I don’t believe in long-distance relationship, but i guess, what you really don’t like or don’t believe will come back on you. When I joined IMVU, I never intended to find a girlfriend or to be in a relationship even just for fun because I never think of love as a game. I was on IMVU just to meet new people and find more friends all around the globe.
Denisse is not my first girlfriend, nor my first long-distance relationship. (I’m not a fan of a long-distance relationship okey, it just happened haha)
I’ve been on IMVU (avatars and online chat in 3D) for almost two months when I first met her.(Take note everyone, what I’m about to tell is happened on IMVU). She didn’t impress me when we first met (I don’t think I impress her also haha), probably because she didn’t talk much. She was new on IMVU (not that new tho). At that time, I got my own circle of friend, and I ‘hang-out’ (online) almost all the time with them. Denisse is belong to my ‘other’ circle of friend, including my sister (online sister) who is a ‘vampire’. (I’m not a vampire, so is Denisse).
I wish I can retrieve everything that is related to me and Denisse on IMVU cause I really wanted to know, how our relationship can grew like now hehe.I always tease her. I asked her to kiss me, then she’ll replied me, ‘on cheek?” and I will said “no”, then she’ll asked me again “hands?” and I’ll answered back ‘not on hands not on forehead’ and at the end she’ll said “sere is crazy’. (I didn’t get the kiss that i wanted, just a peck kiss). I ‘tackles’ her too (she did the same to me). Well I don’t think we will do that in real life or someone will end up sitting on a wheelchair haha.I argue with her, and always fight.I don’t know how or when it started, but she somehow always made me mad and I don’t easily get mad. Get mad here is in the other word is jealous. When she talked to another guy, I felt left-out. One thing that made me pissed also is when I wanted to dance with her, she’ll moved away (damn haha), then I will asked my sister and the other vampire to bite her! (They didn’t do it tho. They’ll always laughed at us)
Yes, I fell in love with her first and I don’t think she think me the way I think about her. Why? Because she’s straight! Yes, I am a girl, and I like girl. I asked her to go out with me, but she’s so crazy that she think I was kidding (I don’t blame her, cause I kid and joke around a lots). One day, when she was around and so is our other friends, I said to them how Denisse always decline me and she asked me “are you really serious?” and I said “Yes” and she said “I thought you were playing” and I said “of course not”. She said yes, and oh wow, I am so happy. I ended up telling everyone that she finally agree to go on a date with me.haha.I can’t wait for tomorrow.
The next day, we met, just me and her (in a public place of course). I told her I was really happy that she finally agree to go on a date with me. Guess what? I was totally pissed off when she said “well, nothing wrong to go on a date with friend right?” .(speechless). “Date as a friend?” I asked her. She said yes. “Who go on a date as a friend?”. She apologized to me after (she still didn’t realized that I like her…geeezz -she is crazy- ) haha.
I told my sister about it and she laughed at me (she knew I like Denisse), same goes to some of my friends, then after that, when I met Denisse, I will always tease her “date as a friend huh?”. I gave up then. (Cause I don’t think she’ll like me; she’s straight, remember?)
Then in real life, I’m having a busy week with University (assignments: 7 of them). I said goodbye to all my friends on IMVU (for a while of course). I spent my last day there with Denisse, Claire and Pink. (It was like a second date as a friend with Denisse tho haha). Turned out to be one of the best time I’m on IMVU. Four of us having fun at the theme park and at the ice cream shop! Then I say goodbye.
I don’t online on IMVU but I still kept checking on my messages. I’m not a stalker, but I knew the time when she’ll be on, so I will send her messages and she’ll replied. She pissed me off again when she always replied it late >.< .. during this time also, I realized that I do really like her. I told her I miss her, she told me she misses me too. (isn't that sweet?) hehe
Almost two weeks off from IMVU, I am back again. I made a video for her birthday (anything for love huh?) haha but I kinda tried to forget her (yes as a friend but nothing romantic). I have another friend: Mar. We did flirt to each other (I kinda like her also haha) but Denisse is the one that really caught my heart. Me and Mar came up with the term "my maybe girlfriend". we addressed each other as 'maybe girlfriend". I even asked Denisse to translated it into spanish. (I can't recall if I have the intention to make Denisse jealous haha) I started to realized something is different when she told me "Sere, today when I was eating ice cream with my friends, it reminds me of you". She even message me, " sere, sere, sere , sere.......... hi hi. I'm crazy, just want to disturb you". I was like 'aha' !
Then I made an final attempt. On April 11th, I asked her. "Denisse, you do think of me when you're not on on here and every time you wanted to be on on here, am i right?"(In front of my sis and our friends haha). "I'm going to ask you one last time, will you go out on a date with me? Not as a friend". She paused. (I was like 'yes'!) My heart is beating faster, it is tense. Then she finally said yes. I AM HAPPY and also SHOCKED!! Frankly speaking, I thought she'll said NO.
Not like most of the people on IMVU who 'in a relationship' as a role-play, me and Denisse are serious. Yes, separated by North Pacific ocean doesn't sounds rational but love know no boundaries. (I think haha). Now we talk everyday on Skype. We texted also. We tried not to talk so much about future but we can't help it.
To be honest, I don't know what will happen between me and Denisse, but I love this girl so much. We laughed, argued and even cried together. I just know that, this is not just an 'internet love or internet romance.' we haven't meet each other, but we will. Te quiero mucho mas mi novia mwaaaaaaaaaah.
visit my blog if interested to know more about us and to know what will happen to this serendipity love:
http://myserendipitylove.blogspot.com/
Just made it. ^^
(Screen) Name: Serene Love Mop Head